Loosing the spark.

nebulousosiris · #1 Mar 22, 2008, 03:43 AM

Hi,
I'm an absolute mess at the moment. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years and recently she moved away to study. Before she left we were very intimate and yeah basically fine. When she came back after a month, the spark was lost so-to-speak. I love this girl so damn much, she still loves me, but the intimacy from her end is lost. What can I do to re-ignite the spark? She also told me that in a few years time, like 2 to 5 years she would be ready for a relationship, it just seems her moving away has changed things dramatically. She also said that she didn't miss me as a boyfriend but more as a friend. Any help with this will be most appreciated!!! I'll do anything to get this relationship back on track!!

N0help4u · Mar 22, 2008, 03:59 AM

You can't get your relationship back on track if she is not wanting the same.
It seems to be off track because she has set her goals else where and is not thinking along the lines of you and her.



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