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Old Mar 19, 2007, 07:31 AM
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just a nice way to say no

Hi i am 19 and my best friend's sister has just turnd 15 and she somehow got my nomber and has been txt me saying she loves me and needs me and loads of things like that now i dont want to jus say where to go cos she is my best mates sister and i get on with her quite well what is a good way to tell her to lay off


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Old Mar 19, 2007, 07:33 AM   #2  
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Just expain to her that you are not interested in her in that way...also tell her that there are plenty of guys out there for her when she gets older...just be nice about it.
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Old Mar 19, 2007, 07:36 AM   #3  
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ye i did tell her loads of reasons why we couldn but she just wont get the point i must admit she is persistant i have considerd just saying i am in a relationship but i am a bad actor and would feel stupid
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It might be nicer to say you wouldnt feel comfortable dating a friends sister and dont want to deal with the possibility that if things dont go well that you will no longer be friends. Say you want to be friends with her too and dont want to betray your friends trust.
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Tell her the truth and stop answering her texts. Hard as it my seem cut the contact until she gets the message.
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Hi i am 19 and my best friend's sister has just turnd 15 and she somehow got my nomber and has been txt me saying she loves me and needs me and loads of things like that now i dont want to jus say where to go cos she is my best mates sister and i get on with her quite well what is a good way to tell her to lay off


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well the first thing you cant do is ask her and her best mate for a 3sum because if you do that your just plane sick o wait a min you have you sick sick puppy, jesus dont love you any more lol

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i wouldn't respond to every single text message she sends you. i would also be honest with her. there's no sense in leading a girl on at this age, and even replying to a text that she sends can lead her on. girls this age are very impressionable and fragile, so be honest, but nice. all things can be said in such a way that they are not hurtful.

i think your friend will understand, too.

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