Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help!
  Advanced
Register  |  Log in  
   Ask    
 Answer  
  Help  

Ask QuestionsprogressAnswer QuestionsprogressBuild ReputationprogressBecome an Expert
 
Free Answers in 3 Easy Steps

Register Now
3 Steps

At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to:
  • Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics.
  • Accept money for answers that you provide.
  • Communicate privately with other members (PM).
  • See fewer ads.

Home > Family & People > Relationships   »   Possibly breaking up with him

 
Question Tools Search this Question Display Modes
Question
 
 
#1  
Old May 4, 2008, 11:04 AM
turtlegirl15's Avatar
turtlegirl15
Junior Member
turtlegirl15 is offline
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 71
turtlegirl15 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Possibly breaking up with him

I do like him and he likes me but I dont love him any more. How could I get HIM to break up with ME?

Reply With Quote
 
     

Answers
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 11:07 AM   #2  
dana1989
New Member
dana1989 is offline
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 6
dana1989 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Quote:
Originally Posted by turtlegirl15
I do like him and he likes me but I dont love him any more. How could I get HIM to break up with ME?
if you dont want this relationship to go on
and you would rather him breaking up with you and you not with him...
not to hurt him..

try seeing him less.. by saying your busy ALot!
try - turning off point.. do thinks he doesnt really llike.

tell him u need a lil space.. make him realise you dont love him anymore..

staying with him will just hurt him more down the line.

Comments on this post
thoughtiwastheman disagrees: your suggestions are immature. What you are suggestioning will only get him upset and hurt. THey could have a friendship after too. Ever thought of that?
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 11:22 AM   #3  
turtlegirl15
Junior Member
turtlegirl15 is offline
 
turtlegirl15's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 71
turtlegirl15 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Quote:
Originally Posted by dana1989
if you dont want this relationship to go on
and you would rather him breaking up with you and you not with him...
not to hurt him..

try seeing him less.. by saying your busy ALot!
try - turning off point.. do thinks he doesnt really llike.

tell him u need a lil space.. make him realise you dont love him anymore..

staying with him will just hurt him more down the line.

that is what he does to me!!!
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 11:24 AM   #4  
bigbird213
Senior Member
bigbird213 is offline
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 521
bigbird213 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
If you dont want to be with him anymore then just fess up and tell him that.

Playing these games will just lead him on and tear him up more in the end.

Be honest.

Comments on this post
talaniman agrees: Being honest is the right thing to do.
thoughtiwastheman agrees: That is bring closure and everyone will know where the other stands
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 11:27 AM   #5  
dana1989
New Member
dana1989 is offline
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 6
dana1989 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
then defenatly talk to him and end it ..
doesnt sound like neither of you will keep putting effort or want this to keep going.

Comments on this post
talaniman agrees: yep!
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 11:33 AM   #6  
bigbird213
Senior Member
bigbird213 is offline
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 521
bigbird213 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ch-211908.html

is this the same person...

If it is, you guys aren't dating - dont worry about it.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 12:28 PM   #7  
Chery
Relationship Expert
Chery is offline
 
Chery's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: RAB near LRMC - go figure!
Posts: 3,432
Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Chery See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Send a message via MSN to Chery
OK, I'm 57 - so a little slow...

You don't like him as much as you did anymore and wish he would break up with you.

When Dana1989 suggested that you try seeing him less and to tell him you need space to make him realize that you don't care for him as much... Did you answer back that this is what he is doing to you and adding a sad face???

Well, if this is the case, then you have nothing to worry about if you don't want to see him anymore. Just ignore his calls, forget him and make new friends.

If you are sad because he is the one 'busy' and needing space, then you still have a crush on him and don't like the way he is treating you. In this case, still ignore him and get over it because you cannot force him to change and respect you enough to make you feel better. He is going his way and it is best you go yours and find someone else to get to know and be close friends with.

You are still young and will probably have many more friends in the future before thinking of being serious about it and planning a life together.

It's OK to be upset about it, but that's just the way life is. We make friends and lose them and are sad for a while, but we all get over it and survive. So stop worrying and start enjoying your life again..

Go to an entertainment park, see a good movie, listen to some super music with friends - get your mind off this chapter in your life and keep on 'trucking'

Good luck dear.

  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 4, 2008, 02:37 PM   #8  
liz28
Senior Member
liz28 is offline
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: new york city
Posts: 552
liz28 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
It sounds likd your both are on the same track and are avoiding eachother so you have nothing to worry about. It just sounds like your both only having a liking to eachother thats is do longer so leave it alone. If you really want or feel to make it offical then you should tell him Your only 15 so maybe in the future your learn one main component of being with someone is communication, so dont be shy to speak your mind.Hopefully your doing in school and know that your not ready for something serious with anyone anyway b/c I read your last question and thats only b/c your young. Just be honest with whoever your dating and have fun and enjoy your teenage years b/c your never get it back.

Good luck!
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 5, 2008, 06:22 AM   #9  
talaniman
Relationship Expert
talaniman is offline
 
talaniman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 14,870
talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
He is already broken up with you by his actions, so all you have to do is move on, and as you have said in your other post, you have other options.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old May 5, 2008, 11:30 AM   #10  
volta-rewind
Junior Member
volta-rewind is offline
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 32
volta-rewind See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
You shouldnt feel like you have to stay with him, just to make sure you will not hurt him.
Do what you think is best for you.
Obviously you dont feel the attraction anymore, move on...
  Reply With Quote
 
     


Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

 
Similar Sponsors

Similar Questions
Question Asker Topic Answers Last Post
breaking up with someone, heart breaking geekymuffin Relationships 3 Jan 15, 2008 03:57 PM
girlfriend moving out/possibly breaking up Conformity Relationships 11 Apr 19, 2007 06:37 AM
possibly pregnant? cheyenne2006 Pregnancy & New Motherhood 5 Apr 18, 2007 03:11 PM
possibly infertile but possibly pregnant! pleasehelp Pregnancy & New Motherhood 1 Oct 19, 2006 03:06 PM




Copyright ©2003 - 2007, Ask Me Help Desk.
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 08:00 PM.

Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6 © 2006, Crawlability, Inc.