Okay this may seem stupid. but i dont get if she likes me or not. she always calls me a lier when i say im over her, she even jumped in my face when she found out i spent a night with another girl . the problem is that we broke up about four motnths ago. and a month into it she was with another guy. but now she wants me to do romantic things for her and say romantic things to her. she keeps saying how she feels like a b**** about breaking it off. its at the point where shes crying to me about it. we went out a week ago and it was great. she keeps telling mutual friends that we are "talking about going back out". but the funny thing is when ever i ask her about it she says we cant. im just compleately mind f**ked about this. i mean i wanna date her again. what do i do. any help or insight would be greatly accepted. thank you in advance.

talaniman

She is stringing you along, and your letting her.
She is not afraid to ask to comeback, and she likes it the way it is.

Breaking NC, and discussing your so called relationship is a big mistake, and needs to stop. You don't have a relationship, just her doing what she wants, and manipulating you.

none12345

Hmmm lemme recap. She shows jealousy when you are with another girl but she's not with you. She tells her friends she thinks of getting back with you and she tells you she cant. Lots of things contradicts here. I dont think its healthy and you should get away from this FAST.

BMI

Nonsense.

With agirl like this you'd do well to heed the advice of all the above. Also, sometimes after a break-up people just want to know their missed, that you still want them, even if they have no intention of going back with you. The fact they know they can have you four months after the fact is a victory in itself, no need to actually do it physically.