Dear Missing.... I hope you meant that sarcasticly when you said 'happy news', but in a sense you should be... because you are better off without him. Could you imagine living with an insecure man like him, seriously?
If he is basically a good guy, we can hope he has good influence on the children so that they get off on a good start in their lives - none of this is their fault and I wish them all the best in the world.
And you.. you've been through a lot, seen a lot, so evidently are learning a lot - use what you learned and make the best of it, dear.
Good luck.
Cher
