its too quiet

997793 · #1 Feb 21, 2008, 06:46 PM

so i just got this new boyfriend last saturday, and i really like himm, but when were together he doesn't say anything i try to start a conversation all the time but it doesnt last...how do i get himm too talk

ChihuahuaMomma · Feb 21, 2008, 06:48 PM

Try talking to him about things that interest him. What are his hobbies? Sports? Classes?

ihatewestseneca · Feb 21, 2008, 06:49 PM

hes probably just shy... how old are you guys? most guys are intimidated at first.

Rockabilly1955mama · Feb 21, 2008, 06:54 PM

Ask questions that you can get more of a 'yes and no' answer to. Here are some exapmles:

What one talent or gifting would you really like to have?

What is your all-time favorite meal?

What food do you hate?

Who is your favorite singer?

If your CD player only played one song, what would it be?

What is one thing that you would really like to learn how to do?

If you could go back in time to any era, what date would you choose?

Anything that will bring up a good conversation.

ChihuahuaMomma · Feb 21, 2008, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockabilly1955mama

Ask questions that you can get more of a 'yes and no' answer to. Here are some exapmles:

What one talent or gifting would you really like to have?

What is your all-time favorite meal?

What food do you hate?

Who is your favorite singer?

If your CD player only played one song, what would it be?

What is one thing that you would really like to learn how to do?

If you could go back in time to any era, what date would you choose?

Anything that will bring up a good conversation.

Those could also result in one line answers. I would suggest delving into his interests, and talking about that. You may also find that you have things in common.



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