So, I was at borders tonight and was skimming through the best selling book "It's called a break up cause it's broken"...while this book is for women, I however found it useful and I reccommend it to any women who has broken up with a guy or has had their hearts smashed! The only exception is... if your relationship ended on good terms, and you both really care for each other then READ THIS BOOK LIGHTLY... the reason being is it teaches you how to hate your ex and attack them emotionally with avengence... so do not stupe so low whereas you start hating someone that cares for you and would never hurt you...still a must read, get it!

For guys: yes you can read that book... or you can buy the movie "Swingers"... it's about a guy who cannot get over his ex, he waits by the phone, checks his messages religiously and wants her back dearly! The funny thing is is when he finally gets over her and meets another girl... the ex calls back.... rent this movie or even buy it, trust me it'll help! it has helped me tremedously. Replay the scenes "The Rub" and "Late breakfast" over and over and over until you puke... it will help you a lot.

good luck.