Interested. or not? Done being?

vvv7 · #1 Apr 25, 2008, 09:01 PM

so, i met this guy who's about three years older than me through mutual friends on myspace. i had actually met him once before a couple years ago, but we didn't really remember. anyway, after talking online for a while, last night we finally hung out, and had sex. today he was online but IMed me about something i wrote about me losing my keys... he asked if i did and maybe they were in his car and blah blah, i was so nervous so i kept words to a minimum, and he didn't send anything else after the last IM. was he just trying to be nice? or are things awkward because neither of us know what to say? i know having sex with him so early was a mistake because i do have a crush on him, but now i'm worried he thinks i'm a slut and we'll just stop talking. what do i do? does the three day rule apply to online stuff too? is "so, you lost your keys?" an attempt to talk or just a little contact to be nice? he is nice and shy i think, he also assured me that he didn't care if i wasn't super skinny and he wasn't shallow. UGH. it's just all confusing. thoughts? what should i be doing that would really work in my favor?

chuff · Apr 26, 2008, 05:58 AM

I think you are reading way to much into nothing. He isn't avoiding you or anything like that so just take it as it comes and try to calm your nerves a little.

vvv7 · Apr 26, 2008, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

well it can be anything, many guys will go out and see if they can "score" and if they do, lose interest. Does he have another girlfriend ?

he does not have another girlfriend, he is looking for someone to date right now i'm almost 100% sure.

nickshehe · Apr 26, 2008, 05:25 PM

Some insight in the situation...
I REALLY liked a girl..online thing - much like yours..we never hung out ..but I was so into her it was unbelievable..I went to go see some old friends and I knew she was going to be there..we ended up almost having sex..she wanted to have sex and we could have, but that would mean I had to ditch my friends..and I automatically thought..(ok if she's that easy on the first night,ill just go out with my friends tonight and I can continue where we left off tomorrow - kind of sleezy I know,im sorry,im being honest)..anw..point of the story is that she automatically deteorated(spelling? too lazy :/) from my eyes, as I had her quite highly in my books , almost instantly..so yes - you made a mistake by sleeping with him so quickly if you intended on having something more serious with him..
I know I havent given you advice on this, I dont know what to say really ;/ just adding insight.



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