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The girl I was with previously, i pretty much fell in love with and did so much for her only to be turned aside. I found out today that she has been scheming on my friend a day after she breaks up with me and I warned him not to deal with her. I think it would be wrong if I didn't at least WARN anybody who is thinking about messing with her about what she'll do to them. I thought her ex boyfriend was a bad guy. I found myself wrong. He was used the same way as me and now I can relate to him. Tell me what you think about these "warnings".
I think it shows what a good guy u are and u dont want to see this girl hurt any other person. Trust me she is going to get what is coming to her, dont forget that!!!!
But will others take you seriously or think you are "sour grapes"? Certainly other guys will think "I'm different and she won't do that with ME".
My advice is to NOT warn anyone. When you do, you are putting her down and making yourself look bad and used and weak. She may act differently with another guy, or may grow up and not scheme any longer.
Warning others will not stop her. Warning other guys will not stop them from thinking she will be different with them. (In fact, they might be attracted to her because she sounds so wicked and delicious.) Warning others will hurt only you, not her.
listen....i found that even when i was going out with her, she was hittign on my friend and she thinks that shes gonna get with him right after. I CANT let that happen to one of my buddies. I must warn them if you ask me because how much it hurts to see what she really can do to guys. IDC what anybody says in rejection because it is right to warn people, especially friends who respect you. After what she did to me, I can't help but keep her back and let her know that I won't let her do this. If they don't take me serious then let em do whatever they want. He'll her and she'll take everything from them and then leave herself. She did it to her ex, me and now shes trying to do it to a close friend and thinks I wouldn't find out about it. Just like all her lies. She didn't care if I found out, she'd just lie some more. After how much she messed with my head, I can't stand to see anyone else go through it. Sure enough it will happen anyway but I might as well try.
I don't see how you can say to NOT warn friends. I will nto get on anyone's I'll just tell em straight up to be careful. She uses men liek a pack of matches. It's sad to think there are so many like that out there. And my friend is the one who called me and told me about her hitting on me. That's loyalty and if she does the same thing to another guy after my warning, they'll realize how stupid they were and do the same thing.
I agree that it makes you look bad, let your friends find out for themselves if they decide to see her. And whose to say they're going to try and start a real relationship, they might take your warning and decide she might be a "one night stand" kind of girl and go for her anyways.
Telling everyone you know that she was mean and broke your heart makes you seem weak, certainly talk to your closest friends about it but more distant friends will think it's wierd you even bring it up. Just forget about her and dont make other people see you differently, everyone has bad breakups.
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