im soo sad!

jessi_13 · #1 Feb 28, 2007, 09:30 AM

hey i need some advice this guy i like is with a nother guy what can i do?

RD07 · Feb 28, 2007, 10:28 AM

Well if he's gay there really is nothing you can do about it, but just get over him. Do you know this guy?

becs6188 · Feb 28, 2007, 11:47 AM

keep looking as they say there are plenty more fish in the sea xx

shygrneyzs · Feb 28, 2007, 01:38 PM

There is nothing you can do as far as getting this guy to go with you. He is with someone else. You can be his friend. Or you can leave him alone all together, which may be the best solution here. Get yourself busy elsewhere - activities, being with other people, hobbies, etc.

jessi_13 · Mar 1, 2007, 08:40 AM

he's not gay i accedntly put guy instead of girl my bad

momincali · Mar 1, 2007, 09:14 AM

Jessi, you're a funny girl, you had us all feeling sorry for you cause we thought the guy you fell for was gay!! Very funny...

Either way, if he is with someone else, than that should tell you that that is who he chose to be with. Please don't waste any of your valuable time or effort trying to change his mind or make excuses for his actions, just move on. Someone else will come along. Someone who knows he wants you the way you want him.

jessi_13 · Mar 15, 2007, 08:27 AM

ok i like this guy cheyenne(the same guy as last time) and i want to tell him how i feel but don't know how? he's 17 and has a girl friend but i still want to tell him!!!!!! i'm gonna write him a note but i don't know what to say do you have any advise?

rol · Mar 15, 2007, 08:30 AM

if he has a girlfriend already dont bother wasting your time!!

whiteladybug2002 · Mar 15, 2007, 08:36 AM

Honey, forget the note! It will only get you into trouble! Guys tend to show the note to the gf and you don't want trouble from her; you want him!

Find a way to spend more time around him; hopefully away from her. Go to a party he is going to or friends house and make him notice you. Not by wearing slutty clothes either, cause then he will only want......well you know. Guys want to feel like they are chasing the girl; they want competition. Date his friend. Go on double dates with him. I know this might sound strange, but trust me .....IT WORKS!! NO NOTES though........that is trouble!



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