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Yep, talaniman is right. It's not a good habit to go after people who are unavailable (or things that are not yours). Unfortunately, he belongs to another right now. But, who knows what can happen in the future...
well i bought cheyenne something (a necklace) from myrtle beach and he actually liked it and he told me that he dident let his gf see that note and yes i wrote him a note and you know i think im in love with him because he's mostly all i think abought sooo do you have any advice or tell me signs of how i know i love him
Listen, would you like if you had a boyfriend and some girl started buying him gifts and writing notes to him???!
Start to treat others the way you would like them to treat you.
Go and find a guy who does not have a girlfriend!!!
you are not in love, it is lust, you want him because he is not available.
Jessi, you are very infatuated with this guy, but trust me, love is an entirely different matter. You sound like a good girl, so let me ask you a few questions.
He has a girlfriend, you know that, would you really feel okay if you broke them up? Would you really be proud of that accomplishment? Why?
Also, how would you feel if some girl came and broke you and your boyfriend up on purpose by flirting, giving him gifts...whatever, would you like that very much?
And last, even if you were able to convince him to be with you (which you should NEVER have to "convince" anyone to be with you) how do you know he will be faithful? If he cheats on her with you, he's a jerk and can't be trusted? How do you know he won't do the same to you???
He may be cute and funny and all that good stuff, but, the truth of the matter is he's taken. He's not available and it's not right for you to go after him. It's not cool to that other girl (whether she's nice or not) and it's not a good reputation for you either. You need to respect yourself more than that.
I would hate to think that there's a woman who works with my husband who is plotting on how to break us up so she could have him. Even if all she did was buy him gifts and smile and flirt and write him notes, it's wrong. She's trying to steal something that doesn't belong to her. Can you imagine your dad cheating on your mom just cause some Silly Sally came along and thought he was cute and decided she wanted him?
Why do I say this? If you think this is okay to do now, you will grow up with that mentality and do it your whole life. You don't ever want to be that other woman, it's not a healthy place to be sloppy seconds. Just move on. You will find someone better, cause he won't be taken and more than likely he will be pursuing you, which is how it should be!
find someone eles..
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