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Old Dec 27, 2006, 10:53 AM
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What should I think?

There is this guy I've been watching from afar, and only my best friend knows about my crush. It actually might be more of an obsession. I know that he's one year younger than me, a freshman, his name is Dallon, he's about 2 inches taller than me, and in first periods mens choir [i'm in third period mixed choir]. He's doesn't know anything about me, even that i exist. Well, anyways, two weeks ago all the choirs had a concert together. In our last song, Him and I had to stand next to each other becuase all the choirs were singing a song together. During the whole song, I could feel him staring at me from the corner of his eye. When i turned to look at him, he had quickly looked away, then he looked back at me while i hadn't looked away...and he smiled at me.

For the next couple of days, when he was around, I kept catching him staring at me while i was staring at him. Then, the day before winter break and he finally walked up to me and introduced himself [not that i didn't already know him]

Can someone please explain this to me?

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Old Dec 27, 2006, 11:15 AM   #2  
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Sounds like he wanted to know who you are.
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Old Dec 27, 2006, 11:16 AM   #3  
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Eventhough the two of you sung next to each other in the choir, he never had the chance to officially introduce himself to you. If the two of you grew up and got married and your kids ask, where did you and daddy meet, how does it sound to say, "in the choir?"

How romantic. LOL Nevertheless, he only wants to treat you right.

What was he supposed to say, let's sing a song? If you have a crush on him, just go with the flow and stop trying to be difficult.

Hope this answers your question!

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I believe that maybe you both have an eye for each other. Go with the flow. Do not become obsessive or pushy. Just enjoy the introduction and take your time and you never know, maybe both of you will enjoy each others company. What does this mean, obvously he had an eye on you too.

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Sure it is very possible. That happens to teenagers, that happens to adults, that can happen to anybody. I know it may seem impossible but nothing is impossible and when this does happen to two people it should be considered an amazing experiance.

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SLX agrees: Is that even possible? When in history has two teenagers had crushes on each other at the same time?
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If it goes well, Fr Chuck can marry you right here and we can be Godfathers to your children and they can grow up answering questions ....................Am I moving to fast for you??
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ummm....I don't think i'm ready for marriage...and i'm definately not ready for children.
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Always start out as friends. It feels good to know there is a connection. That connection that you thought only you had, turns out this person was drawn to you as well.

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SLX,

How very cute. Oh how I remember the days of sneaking a stare, and catching a stare in return. Sounds like this is a very nice boy...enjoy...go slow...

Guess what you want to know, is...is he interested...I think that is a Yes.
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thanks guys...but i don't know what to say around him. I feel awkward around him,. but whenever i see him with his friends and he looks happy, i get all warm inside and i smile....
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Take your time and get comfortable while you get to know him, remember there is no hurry, so just be yourself.
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