what should i do in 15 and my boyfriend is 16 we have been together 2 mounths and now he is acting extreamily difficult we are just leaving school and he wont get a job he wont let me hang aroung with boys and he always turns his phone off last night he told me on the phone that he just wonts to be with his mates we have split up in the past because he just wonts to be single i think he is trying to hint at me to finish with him i hope not cause i would he heart broke when i told him i wont us to last he just laught down the phone he upsets me so much what should i do???

turtlegirl

Think of it this way. What would you do if a friend was telling you about her boyfriend who:
1. is acting extremely difficult
2. won't get a job
3. won't let her hang around with boys
4. always turns off his phone
5. says he just wants to be with his mates AND
6. laughed at her when she said she wanted things to last?
I think you know the answer. Leave him alone and if he gets his act together and wants you back, then go from there. Don't allow yourself to be treated like that! You are showing him how he should treat you -- this isn't it!

Wildcat21

Yep - it sounds like you made this guy your life. Your BF is NOT your life - only part of it.

I wrote out on another post what you need to learn - part 1 and part 2. Please read this. It will help the rest of your life.

You're too available to this guy and he is repulsed by that. Give him space.

CroCivic91

Holy crap...i think the first thing you should do is learn to put "dots" in the proper place. Hint: at the end of sentence.

arunavcd

u r still young , u will meet so many people and guys. I think u should jus dump him or if u really feel something then try to talk things out wit him. Ask him why he is behaving in this way....And again i need 2 remind u that u r still young and there r plenty of guys out there.

mike145k

let me tell you something your only 15 and you are having boy troubles whats wrong with you are you going to be this way with everyone you date after a man or a boy gets his way with you the party is over baby learn this lesson and learn it well stop giving out your love to any tom or harry wait and go to school become independent and able to support yourself grow wiser with your mistakes and yes having sex is a mistake stop it

lickemlolly

you are young i think its best to just let this one go hun...sounds like he doesnt want to be with you and staying with him if he doesnt want the rship will only make it worse bc then hes going to cheat on...i think the best thing for you to do is just move on...

CroCivic91

Is it so hard to use dots?! whynotjusttypewholesentenceslikethisandforgetthedo tsalltogetherohandforgetcommasandeverythingelsejus ttypelikenoonewillreaditohandthankgodforthisforums ignoreuseroptionwoohoo

lickemlolly

lmaoooooooooo...civice you are too much...guess hell be gettin on me next for using too many dots...rofl...lmaooo...

fredg

Hi,
Your boyfriend is simply just too much.
This type of thing happens to women much, much too often by husbands!
Get rid of this jerk, and re-think who you want to be with.
I also agree that at 15 yrs old, you should be focusing on something besides sex!
Also, for the volunteer expert using cursive language, it is not appropriate, nor is it to be used at this website.
Best wishes,
fredg