I'm in Love with an Married man.. Help!

Vero1986 · Nov 21, 2005, 07:28 PM

I am 19 yeas old and I am in love with a married man.. He is 20 and he has been with his wife for almost 5 year but had been married for 1 year.. He don’t live with his wife, she lives in Panama and he lives here in Canada..He was going to go back to Panama this year but now he dont want to go back.. He says that he dont want to get me go...We have known each other for a long time now and Oh one more thing, he is also my dads friend.. I have liked him for a long time now and he has liked me too. I feel really bad for her but I still want to be with him and I know that I am doing bad but I cant help it.. He tells me that he likes me also and that he cares about me very much and that he may tell his wife that he don’t want to be with her no more… We’ve have sex before but he likes to call it ( making love ) and I know is wrong but I cant help it… Is he for real or just want to have fun with me for now?

I have stop seeing him and i have stop talking to him and i have just stop being with him lets see what happenes?

tariq666 · Aug 13, 2007, 10:59 PM

I think he is the one who will run away from you (leave u) because he got what he is looking for “sex” .

tobeamiss · Aug 15, 2007, 10:43 AM

appearances can be deceiving. Actually I'm a very nice person. I just don't like being betrayed. And I certainly have no pity for single girls who seek married men. They can say it was an accident, but they know what they're getting themselves in to and in the meantime, they destroy families. And yes, I do wish ill on cheap tricks.

julia-marie · Jan 17, 2008, 01:32 PM

[quote=Anayden]Im tired of all these dam women saying they with married men. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YALL????!!!!!????I cant believe that after you knew he was married you stayed. That says very little about your personality. Obviously you have NO self esteem if you know that he is and you STILL are with him. The anger when you found out should have been enough energy to leave him. You are just stupid 4 staying with him. Y would he leave his wife if he got her cooking and taking care of his home and getting free sex from you when ever he wanna on the side? Please gurl. You are just gonna get yo heart broken. I hope when you marry the same thing happens to you. But I hope you find out. Maybe then it would give you and idea of how his wife would feel if she had proof. I HOPE SHE WHOOPS YO AZZ! THEN AND ONLY THEN WILL YOU KNOW THE PAIN THAT US MARRIED WOMEN FEEL WHEN FLOOZIES LIKE YOU WITH NO SELF ESTEEM COME INTO THE PICTURE. IF YOU DONT KNOW ITS PASSABLE BUT IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE A SLUT![/Q

julia-marie · Jan 17, 2008, 01:35 PM

Ouch!! that was a bit harsh I must say!! Men are born predators, some women are vulnerable! To call the poor girl a tart is not on!!! Why don't men get called?? I have been on the receiving end and all I can say is "it's his loss" !!!!

mishelly3 · Oct 11, 2008, 11:42 PM

What are you doing? why are you doing this to yourself?nyour 19 move on. Listen to what all of these people are saying this wont work. He cheated on his wife babe your next in line. Get out of this relationship and then get some counceling so maybe the next relationship u have can be a healthy one...

good luck

JBeaucaire · Yesterday, 12:35 AM

Hehe, I love seeing adamant responses to questions three years old...



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