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girl-in-love · Mar 20, 2007, 09:38 AM

hi,
This is my story:
I have 12 years and i like this guy. My best friend is called Vielka. Her ex boyfriend, julio, is my best friend since we were 5. Now we are in different schools but we get together at the mall. In his new school his the "cute guy" but he doesn't forget us. :) i have like one year in love with him. The thing is vielka was not in love with him before i told her that i liked him. to not make her feel bad i told her i liked him and she said she doesn't care. that julio and me could be more than just best friends. But then she told a friend of mine, linette, that she still liked Julio, she just didnt want to make me feel bad. Then linette came and told me. Vielka now said to him that she was in love with him. She told me to do the same thing but i don't want to do it because then if hes not in love with me we could finish this friendship. in parties he gives me some looks but i don't do the same thing because i want him to take the first step, not me. weve talked and talked but not about this. :confused: :confused: :confused: I dont know what to do. What can i do, please help!!!!!!:confused:

(im not talking about sex and anything like that) I want it to be in a way of what we feel inside not physically...

rol · Mar 20, 2007, 09:56 AM

12!! Wow its starting young nowadays!!
If he's your best friend ex don't make any move .He will make a move if he is interested. Never pursue a guy.:)

ATYOURSERVICE · Mar 20, 2007, 10:23 AM

wait?. you actually have not spoken or had some kind of interaction? What that is called is infatuation. I won't say you can't love at 12, but love is something your grow to learn and feel. What you first feel is attraction, lust, infatuation.
In the adult world, and I speak for the male part, you do not go after the ex girlfriend of your friend, period. But we are talking about a relationship: dating, sex, living to gether possibly and possiby children. It's just a no, no.

I will say, if you value your friendship, boys will come and go... true girlfriends can last a lifetime. Talk to your friend about it. Get it out on the table, without arguing.
Good luck

AandZ4ever · Jul 4, 2007, 04:52 PM

I know how you feel just read my question! Seriously I am almost 15 and have been in love with my friends ex for 4 and a half years! Dun dun dun