ive been going out with this guy for like..... forever........... i love him so much........... and have done since i met him............. but ive started to have feelings for another guy................. but hes not just a guy...... hes my bestfriend.......i cant stop thinking about him................ hes in my mind all the time and i feel guilty about it as i should be thinking of my boyfriend......................................... .............. i know i love my boyfriend more........ and this is just some sort of crush.............. .......... ........but i think about him all the time and i even miss him when hes not there..........

what should i do?!


i want to stay with my boyfriend but im scared my feelings for this guy will interfere......

im constantly wondering whether my boyfriend knows..................

this is mainly reliant apon the fact that ive told this other guy..........about how i feel............ and he is best friends with my boyfriend also.....................


help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!........................... ........................

relroy

there is only one person to help u here,YOU!you have to give serious thought about who you want to spend your life with and not just as a friend.if someonne knows more about these guys talk to them and find out things u dont know abt them.then go on a vacation without either of them and take your time to dwell on this predicament.last and the best advice is,find out how these guys feel abt u.it is better to be in love with a person who loves u rather than being in love with one who u have a crush on.

bluerose

Bide your time. Time will work this one out for you. Be honest and up front. Don't play them off against each other or you may lose both. Don't imagine he feels the same way, find out for sure. Deal with the situation honestly and if you decide to simply stay friends, think yourself a very lucky young woman to have not one but two lovely men in your life..

lauren v

****** im feeling the same way i dont know what to do....

lauren v

Sdjosh

Not to be harsh but i think that both of you should take a step back and figure out what you want. Sounds like you want to hold on to the current guy for safety before you have someone else on the hook.

You both sound as though you aren't interested in a long term relationship but that you both want to have fun and date around. So go do it. Don't lead these guys on. It will just hurt them worse down the road.

mrsoze

Be prepared for an intense reaction the day this comes to light. Not only did you do this, but you also did this with someone he knows, and someone he is close to. SO he's losing his girlfriend and best friend at the same time. This will get ugly, and fast.