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Old Apr 30, 2008, 10:10 AM
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Is it normal?

i have gone out on dates with many girls but...
how many times i try to tell my self but i end up being dumbstruck
tthe thing is that when ever im with my girlfriend together i just cant pull up my guts to go ahead and kiss her...forget making out i dont even know how or what should i do to make that girl wanna kiss me...

is this normal for a guy who has never kissed before?
what should i do so that i feel confident enough to go upto her and kiss her??
did it happen with me only or is it normal for people?

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Old Apr 30, 2008, 10:18 AM   #2  
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ok well im not a dr. or anything but ive had my moments and really i think i started almost all of my relationships if you know what im saying but i think you just get scared and you let that fear get in the way, or maybe your just scared of rejection, either way just do it dont think about it and go for it, and if your fear just doesnt go away try to make it a good feeling, thats what i did i got scared at first but then i really liked the feeling you get you know what i mean
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Start slow with holding hands, and the occasional hug for a greeting, and work up to a peck on the cheek......................................!!!!
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I was so scared with my first kiss and so was he. But Its perfectly normal to be scared I mean you dont want to do it wrong and so on but the only advise i can give you is that go for it and if you dont succeed so what at least you tried and now you can get over that first time feeling and the next time it wont be so bad! Just go for it you have nothing to lose it might end up good. And another thing everyone has a different kissing style so when you first start kissing someone you kind of develop one for the two of you. And see how they do it on movies girls like to be kissed pationately! Hope this helps!
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Basically if she likes you, she will make you feel comfortable. But on the other hand, girls like a straight forward aggressive man. Plan the location and put don't over plan. Just do it when you are alone together. Start rubbing her shoulders for a back rub. That always works.
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but how do i know if she wants to kiss me too....i mean even if i go forward with it will she mind..i dont know how go go smooth and all and what if she just gets angry with me and breaks up... i mean just for my first kiss i dont want to lose my girlfriend,..i know she really likes me...but how do i start?...
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Well if she really likes you, you have nothing to worry about really
But even when you're not sure - you should never fear rejection..Even if you are the most attractive man in a room, with the most addictive character,best dressed e.t.c -whatever ; chances are not every woman in that room will like you, because everyone likes different types of men. Rejection shouldn't be taken as personally as it is, and hence shouldn't be as feared (my humble opinion).
Now you're in an easier position,you know she likes you..There are several ways you can do it. One way I do it is while im hugging a girl and we let go, I rub my cheak on hers while we pull back..but really slowly, and then we get really close to each other. and you pause when you're face too face and really close. If she doesn't pull away(which she won't in your case), then you kiss her slowly..
Other ways from a hug, just start slowly kissing her neck and work your way up to her mouth(thats probably not too romantic of a first kiss though)..
Or if you do couple stuff like lie together in bed and talk..and she's facing you, just find the appropriate moment and do it.
It's only the first kiss that's a hurdle..She's probably as excited and wondering when you're going to kiss her.
Good luck mate
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