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Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:33 PM
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I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 25
Hello everyone..
Title says all..

Well first i would like to say..please no rude comments i just need help..

My mom has a boyfriend and his son is my bf..he's 25 years old.
My mom is totally fine with me and him we all live together..He sleeps with me..
and he took away my virginity..
I don't know what to do.. is what i'm doing bad?..

I love him so much..
He makes me feel so happy i feel safe with him and my mom let's us have sex..
But idk..
He says whem i'm 18 he wants to marry me..
But i don't know..

What can i do?..

Please be honest but not rude..
 
     

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:36 PM   #2  
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uhm this is technically illegal and way wrong? how is your mother ok with this and how is this in any way normal? is this even a real question?
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:37 PM   #3  
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you are the minor in the house
What your mom is doing and allowing is very bad.She is being very short sited in your future.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:42 PM   #4  
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this is a real question..
if it wasn't real i wouldn't of even posted this.. : (
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:51 PM   #5  
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All of you are dysfunctional, and neither parent is protecting you. Of course whatever tribe, or culture you with, may have different rules for this type of thing, but in America, the 3 adults would be in jail, and you would be in foster care, because what your doing is illegal here all across the country.

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:51 PM   #6  
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first of all forget being short sited and all of that. this is wrong on so many levels first and foremost its all ILLEGAL.

i highly suggest you cut this out and enjoy your youth, you're 14th enjoy those years to whatever life brings you. you and your bf are on total different levels of maturity mentally and emotionally.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 08:55 PM   #7  
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Originally Posted by ayu2310 View Post
is what i'm doing bad?..
Why did you ask this?
Quote:
Please be honest but not rude..
Why would you expect us to be rude?

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Clough agrees: Good questions!! To me, the original post would seem to be a baited one!!
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:16 PM   #8  
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Yipes!!

For one, I urge you to find out the age of consent for your state if in the US.

Age of Consent - by State

Also look at "The law" link.

All it would take is one person to file a complaint and, I belive there could be serious consequences.

Charges against boyfriend
Charges against mother
You in foster care.

You need to be aware of the laws and you should cut it out until the law allows you to be boyfriend/girlfriend.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:16 PM   #9  
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Im not buying it,the gig is up.

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Wondergirl agrees: I agree. Something's fishy, for sure.
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Old Oct 20, 2009, 10:16 PM   #10  
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This can't be for real , surely a parent wouldn't allow this to happen

If it is it's a sad world we live in !!!

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Altenweg agrees: Sadly, it is a sad world.
 
 
     
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