I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 25

justcurious55 · Oct 20, 2009, 10:39 PM

I really hope this isn't real. If it is though, you need to talk to your school counselor. Your mother, her boyfriend, and your "bf" all deserve to rot in prison if this is for real. And you deserve someplace safe to live where you can learn what love really is.

JTS31708 · Oct 20, 2009, 10:43 PM

Um this definitely cannot be real.

Who in their right mind would even allow this to happen?

justcurious55 · Oct 20, 2009, 10:48 PM

When my mom was about 14, rumor is my grandmother let her 20 something boyfriend move in with them. This is my grandmother who had her first child at 14 or 15 years old and encouraged my aunts to purposely get pregnant to trap men into relationships. I hope my grandmother is the exception, but who knows what other crazy people are out there. I hope this is just someone's sick idea of a joke.

Don't worry, no one in my family believes my grandmother is in her right mind. She's crazy.

artlady · Oct 20, 2009, 11:22 PM

If in fact this is true,yes it is wrong.

The adults in your life should be there to protect you and keep you from anyone who would harm you.

In your case all of the adults are depriving you of a normal youth by allowing you to behave as if you were an adult.

I question your mothers sanity and that of the boyfriend and the boyfriends father.

They are not thinking of your best interest and it is WRONG on so many levels.

Where is your father and what does he have to say about this horrible lifestyle?

I suggest you talk to an adult who is smart enough to know right from wrong and see if you can't find a more fitting home to live in.

One day you will come to regret that your teen years were stolen from you by this 25 yr.old and your mother ,you will probably come to see her as the horrible person that she is.

I feel very sorry for you ,you are in a bad place and you sound like the only one with sense ,at least you are questioning if this is right or wrong.

Enigma1999 · Oct 20, 2009, 11:37 PM

Hello Ayu,

When I read your thread, I about fell out of my chair! What is this world coming to?

First off, I commend you for coming on here to ask us this hard and uncomfortable question. No one in here wants to make you feel bad. I think that all of us are in shock!

I totally agree with Artlady. Shame on your Mother for allowing this to happen! I can't even fathom if this were my child! You have to understand that this relationship is wrong! He is a 25 year old. You are 14. That is just wrong on so many levels. My advice to you is to break it off! You are too young to even understand that kind of love. Where is your Father through all of this?

bjohnrupp · Oct 20, 2009, 11:44 PM

I really hope this isn't true! However my co-worker is 25 and he had a relationship with a 16 year old girl! He told me the girls parents let him sleep in her room and they knew they were having sex and they were fine with it! So I guess this girls thread could be for real- which is a real shame if it is.

bjohnrupp · Oct 21, 2009, 02:59 AM

Yes Artlady you're right- he's the biggest loser. In so many ways!

ayu2310 · Oct 21, 2009, 10:27 AM

I don't have a father...

I wish · Oct 21, 2009, 10:48 AM

The first thing we need to know is where, as in which country, do you live? There are different rules in different countries.

I think the biggest problem people have is that you sleep together. If you really care about each other so much, why can't you leave the sex out? There's no reason to rush a relationship with him.

artlady · Oct 21, 2009, 11:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ayu2310

i don't have a father...

At some point in your life you had a father.Is he deceased?

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 25

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