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I ignored his calls. He sent me roses

Asked Sep 12, 2007, 11:36 PM — 77 Answers
Hi everyone, My ex left me a little over a month ago and I found out he was seeing this sluttish girl. Well I found out last week he moved in with her about 3-4 weeks ago. 2 days ago he started calling me. I didn't answer the phone so today I got a dozen roses delivered and on the card it read, I'm sorry for the mistakes I've made, being with her, living with her and breaking your heart. I love you so much but didn't realise it then. Please forgive me, and Please marry me.

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#21

Sep 13, 2007, 10:10 PM
Hey Mac, why the hell are you so pissed off at her? She has done nothing to you. Hey I'm sorry you've been treated so bad in your relationships but if she takes him back or not I can't see how that would effect you in any way, shape or form.
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#22

Sep 13, 2007, 10:18 PM
Just giving my opinion ithought that's what she wanted.

She is on here asking for advice to a question which she already has the answer too....

She is taking him back and she already has most likely...

Not enough love in the world to take back a guy who has be bending over the town HO
! What is everyoine going to think of her now! Just giving my input you and her can take it whichever way you like. She will be back with him in a week and probably back on here within 4 months complaining or maybe infected with some ho virus!

Glad I could be of assistance in this case!

Im still waiting to hear what the result of this is what was the outcome? Please advicse us all DJ thanks...
clarityseeker (Sep 17, 2007 07:05 AM): Wow, Mac, it's too bad that this girl who just needs a little advice and perhaps a little compassion instead gets a few misogynistic rants from you...   Source:
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Sep 13, 2007, 10:31 PM
Look mac, you have a right to your opinion, that being said I think you're taking this a little bit personally, She hasn't even said she was going to forgive him and take him back. She was just relaying what had happened with the roses. But I think if you look back at some other peoples posts that in most cases they are very hurt in the beginning and they all wanted their ex's back at first. It takes time to be strong enough to say no to the person you love and have shared many years with. It has nothing to do with backbone it is just raw emotions talking and I think pretty much all of us have been there. And if you didn't feel that way in the first few weeks then maybe you weren't in love with that person to begin with.
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Sep 14, 2007, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted by mckenzie134
Just giving my opinion ithought that's what she wanted.

She is on here asking for advice to a question which she already has the answer too....

She is taking him back and she already has most likely...

Not enough love in the world to take back a guy who has be bending over the town HO
! What is everyoine going to think of her now! Just giving my input you and her can take it whichever way you like. She will be back with him in a week and probably back on here within 4 months complaining or maybe infected with some ho virus!

Glad I could be of assistance in this case!

Im still waiting to hear what the result of this is what was the outcome? Please advicse us all DJ thanks...
Mckenzie, for your information I haven't had any contact with my ex. I haven't answered his calls or responded to the roses or the purposal. I can see that you are sure fired up about it though. It almost seems as though your heart is on the line here instead of mine. I haven't even came close to forgiving him for "Bending over the town HO" as you so tastefully put it. And as for saying I should invite her over so he could bend us both was a FUK'd up thing to say. IF and I say IF I take him back that's my call and not yours. And yes I did come here to ask advice, BUT I asked advice from relationship experts, NOT YOU! If I ever need advice on how to hate women you will be the first one I call. After all aren't you the President of the He Man Women Haters Club? One more thing if you hate women so much have you ever considered the fact that you may be GAY?
LivingtheLifeinFLA (Sep 16, 2007 08:35 AM): Mac is just learning how to properly deal with women. With age come wisdom.   Source:
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#25

Sep 14, 2007, 06:25 AM
What is going on here? These posts do not sound like you at all mckenzie. This is beyond crude and extremely inappropriate.
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Sep 14, 2007, 06:43 AM
Sounds like somebody is having a bad day.
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Sep 14, 2007, 12:18 PM
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What is going on here? These posts do not sound like you at all mckenzie. This is beyond crude and extremely inappropriate.
I agree GlindaofOz, I'm not sure what set him off here. But I don't think I deserve his rude comments.
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#28

Sep 14, 2007, 12:26 PM
Heck no Honey! You sure do not.

Without a doubt you never said you were going to go crawling back. You clearly just needed to get some perspective with the help of other people - nothing wrong with that.
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Sep 14, 2007, 12:40 PM
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Heck no Honey! You sure do not.

Without a doubt you never said you were going to go crawling back. You clearly just needed to get some perspective with the help of other people - nothing wrong with that.
Thank you GlindaofOz, I don't think I could ever take him back. I just want to know how do I forget what a great 5 years we had? I know his betrayal is a good start but all I can seem to remember is how great we were and how happy I was. The good seems to over shadow the bad.
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Sep 14, 2007, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted by DJ1963_
Thank you GlindaofOz, I don't think I could ever take him back. I just want to know how do I forget what a great 5 years we had? I know his betrayal is a good start but all I can seem to remember is how great we were and how happy I was. The good seems to over shadow the bad.

To be honest fixate on the bad. Fixate on how he left you for some seriously sketchy girl and was willing to throw away everything good, wonderful and loving he had with you for some nookie. Anytime you float back to some lovely moment let the image of him kicking you to the curb for the "town bicycle"

Remember you deserve someone who would not throw away 5 years for a mistake. Remember that you are a great person who has lots of love in them and deserve someone who won't run out of steam.
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