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Home > Family & People > Relationships   »   If you get dumped make sure they feel dumped.

 
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Old Jul 27, 2007, 12:23 AM
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If you get dumped make sure they feel dumped.

CAN YOU WIN HER BACK?


NO action required. It's only her that determines that...the less you do. the more you do. reallyIf everyone here followed this maybe more would find they do get there ex back!!!

And maybe even more will find out that they wont be coming back alot quicker than hanging around delaying the inevitavle.

Confused is a word used alot in many threads, really the only one confused is you, confusing yourself trying to work out what why or how things went wrong and how could they do this.

Simple they arnt that into you anymore, but to many people who get dumped just cant understand why and really some times there is no explanation except the dumper does not want you and whatever they said in the past is irrelevant only today counts, and yes they can be upset and i tell you what in many situations if you had of dumped them one day before you got dumped there world would have folded and they would probly be on here. So the best thing to do is walk away straight away and turn you being dumped into them being dumped as well. Put them in your shoes dont let them have a fall bak. Tell them if thats what they want you cant wait!!! and definately dont listen to there crap if you loved me you would wait, reply with " If you loved me you wouldnt need a break!!!

Its that simple!!!!


Wish itwas though so hard to do this, but its the correct way, Why wait on someone who needs to think about weather they want to be with you!!!!

Makes you look like a loser when you think about it and no one wants to be with someone like that so whaen someone is deciding on you help them out!!!!

Dont let them decide your better than that, HEll they arnt the decision maker and as soon as they think you are as soon as someone better comes along they will once again yhave to take a break and make a decision!!!!

Never wait NEVER and always let them know everything is fine and you will be ok. DONT EVER CALL!!!!!!EVER EVER

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Old Jul 27, 2007, 12:29 AM   #2  
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yeah totally agree,
its so hard of course at the beginning to do that but its the best thing to do,
Go tell them to pack their bags .lol
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Old Jul 27, 2007, 01:19 AM   #3  
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thank you! I booked my ticket to london to visit my "gf" long before she decided to not want to see me anymore. Why? I dont know what is going in her head I think she is really confused...cough 4 years later. But that is not the point, at least now I know I am not going to go chasing her. I guess if she wants to see me then she will call. She knows im there. Right?
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Mac, I think you've been told that by a lot of us.
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yeh nc!
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Hmm.... I guess you're right..
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Its all true unless someone wants all of you they get none of you. Bravo for spelling it all out mc!
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Yeah. we know. We've been saying this for a while. Except most of us dont believe in this as a method for winning them back like you do.

Most of us believe this to be the best method for moving on.

BIG DIFFERENCE!
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No skell most want to win bvack thats why they are on here if they didnt want to win back they wouldnt come on here they would just be happy and moved on by now. Probly wouldnt have visited this site if didnt want advice on getting the ex back So this is how or what should be done. Your just bitter no one wants to move on they want to know how to get back in.. So at least im helping not like your negative move on attitude.

If someone wants to move on they dont need advice on that its pretty simple move on!!!!

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talaniman disagrees: If it were that easy to move on they wouldn't be here. Its about geting healthy enough to handle reality.
Matteus disagrees: They come here for help. in fact they want to know how to get ex's back. what do they get? a big Move On! Why. Because you cant change an ex's opinion, whatever you do, NC or no NC. Stalking or No stalking. The NC is for them, not their ex's
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No skell most want to win bvack thats why they are on here if they didnt want to win back they wouldnt come on here they would just be happy and moved on by now. Probly wouldnt have visited this site if didnt want advice on getting the ex back So this is how or what should be done. Your just bitter no one wants to move on they want to know how to get back in.. So at least im helping not like your negative move on attitude.

If someone wants to move on they dont need advice on that its pretty simple move on!!!!
Damn straight!

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