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When your boyfriend did'nt want a relationship anymore but still loves you and wants to be single.He wants me to give him space and says he would try again when he's ready.
the same happened to me and i rang him constantly and annoyed him but we eventully got back and i have lernd dnt let it bother u that much it will be very hard but try not to think of it and let him think you dont care and he will run after you
get anew hobbie,sewin,drawin,paintin,decorate,rearange ur furniture,restore old furniture,go to the cinema with friends or to dinner or go and have afew but not to many drinks,join the gym,take up cycling,have afew dinner partys
and what reason did he give you? or was that it he needs sum space
18 is still young to be having along term serious relationship theirs abig world out their that youve not seen and sum things you have to do yourself like finding yourself and maybe your boyfriend just needs some time to find his self and to figure out what he wants from life and what hes goin to do with his life i found myself at 18 asking myself the same questions,i was takin alot of drugs,pills,coke,ket,acid,smokin pot,mushis,speed just to get away from all myproblems and worries.myauntie sent me aticket to visit myfamily in ireland i spent aweek with myfamily and while i was in ireland i had adream that i was runnin down atunnel i got to asign and across road left or right but the sign had no directions i woke up and asked myself what i wanted from life and myawnser to myself was i didnt no,i had to find myself,afew months went past and i was still askin myself questions then one mornin i woke up and decided to move to ireland i told all myfriends had drug partys for afew weeks i kissed mybestfriends goodbye and i found myself im not depressed anymore i dont take drugs anymore thanks to mykids and i have 2 wonderfull boys and i have areally great boyfriend and anice house but if i had stayed i could have been dead now but it took me years to find myself and be happy for who i was who i no and new and except what life throws at me and deal with it best i can. it took me so long to find myself because i didnt really no what i was lookin for the drugs clouded mymind and the person people thort i was n the person i thort i was wasnt really me at all but now ive eventually found me im glad i did and im glad it took me so long
your boyfriend probably just needs abit of space to find himself n to figure out how he feels n what he wants from life give him afew days and if he doesnt ring you ,you ring him i hope this helps
It really does help,thank you. I just know that i want to be happy by myself, I don't want to depend on anyone or anything for happiness. It is really hard to let go though. I don't know how to get over. Beacuse there is a possibility that we might not get back together and i just don't want to think about him and just focused on myself,but it's really hard to get him off my mind when I know he should'nt be there.