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    May 24, 2008, 03:11 PM
    How to make him like me?
    I like this totally sweet guy and he acts all frendly and such but how am I sure that he likes me? Please help!
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    May 24, 2008, 03:15 PM
    First of all, you can't MAKE someone like you. Be yourself and if he doesn't like you for who you are then he's not worth your time. Simple as that.

    You can always ask him if he likes you. Ask him out to lunch. Don't label it as a date. Try and recognize gestures that make it seem that he is interested. If he brings you flower, if HE calls it a date.. those sorts of things.
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    May 24, 2008, 03:19 PM
    How would I know if he did truly like me?
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    May 24, 2008, 03:20 PM
    I just answered that question in my post.

    The foolproof way is to ask him. If you are too shy, have a friend ask him.
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    May 24, 2008, 03:21 PM
    What would my friend say? "Do you like so n so??" or what?
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    May 24, 2008, 03:22 PM
    That's a good way, yes? There's not set strategy to these sorts of things.
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    May 24, 2008, 03:26 PM
    Well its kind of hard for me to do that beacause lets just say I'm under the age of 15 and its not that easy at my age range...

    Um be right back I got take 20 minutes to eat & thank u 4 your time

    OK, well I'm back..
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    May 24, 2008, 03:40 PM
    EVERYTHING is awkward at that age. If he likes you, you will know soon enough. Just show that you are interested.
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    May 24, 2008, 03:42 PM
    Umm u there?

    OK

    Well thanks for your good advice; I'm good at giving dating advice but I'm not good at my own experenceses...
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    May 24, 2008, 03:44 PM
    This isn't a chatroom, it's a forum. You post your answer, and wait for a response. No need to post asking if I'm there.
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    May 24, 2008, 03:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 1lastkissb4ugo
    Well thanks for your good advice; im good at giving dating advice but im not good at my own experenceses...
    Then what would you say to a friend who asked you, "I like this guy, but how do I know if he likes me?"
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    May 24, 2008, 03:48 PM
    OK you got me there... bragging never help anything; I guess I'm not really good at advice :(
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    May 24, 2008, 03:49 PM
    I'm not trying to tell you that you are not good at advice, I am trying to help you see that is a difficult question. Just let him know that you are interested and wait for him to aproach you or take the wheel and drive, and ask him out.
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    May 25, 2008, 06:54 AM
    You should never change yourself for someone to like you. I've tried it, it doesn't work out. One day you will find somebody who likes you for you, and you will like them for them.
    That is the way a relationship should be.
    I understand your young and this may be one of the first guys you have liked.

    If you figure out he likes you, then great! If he doesn't don't be too heartbroken.
    Just don't change yourself for him.
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    May 25, 2008, 07:13 AM
    If the person does nothig except acting sweet:like givingyou some gifts or something now and then ,chances are that he does not really like you.try some other guy instead;)
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    May 25, 2008, 07:21 AM
    Boys don't think, they just do.

    In otherwords, if he likes you he'll do something for sure, and you don't have to ponder. But if he never do anything, and you'll still hopeful and wondering, just ask him and get it over with like what chihuahuamomma said.
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    May 25, 2008, 08:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by the shah
    if the person does nothig except acting sweet:like givingyou some gifts or something now and then ,chances are that he does not really like you.try some other guy instead;)
    Well this guy doesn't try to flatter me he just is so nice and cares about other people and is so worldly, and great. Hes nice to everyone and I wong go for another guy beacause he's my one trule crush. :cool:

    Quote Originally Posted by kaitou
    boys don't think, they just do.

    in otherwords, if he likes you he'll do something for sure, and you don't have to ponder. But if he never do anything, and you'll still hopeful and wondering, just ask him and get it over with like what chihuahuamomma said.
    Well I'm not sure that he dose like me put I want him to like me, put he's my one and only crush and ill stand by him 4eva. :cool:
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    May 25, 2008, 09:33 AM
    Slow down and relax, and get to know him by talking, and see how it flows from there.
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    Dec 25, 2010, 10:17 PM
    I'M going through the same thing. This guy name Ty liked me... no he loved me. I didn't like

    him at the time. He asked me out many times. I said yes most of the time, but then said
    no once... :( he asked me out... again and I said yes... again, but then that night he started
    getting all gushy and was calling me honey and baby and stuff ( right now I wish he would
    do that again) but anyway... I started to get uncomfertable so I broke up with him the next
    morning. Summer went by and we hardly talked. We are back at school again. He shows
    interest in me and when I asked him out he said no. I missed the school dance so I never
    got a chance to dance with him =[ while he was there he danced with someone named Kelly
    and now shows NO interest In me. Yeah so now I like him and he doesn't like me =[ I want
    my boy back!
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