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Old Dec 9, 2007, 05:22 PM
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How to let go

How do you try NC when the girl still wants to be friends with you?

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Old Dec 9, 2007, 07:54 PM   #2  
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Say no thanks, you have enough friends. Have a nice life.
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Simple really.

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Old Dec 9, 2007, 08:18 PM   #3  
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You don't TRY NC. You DO NC.

NC means NC. Don't answer. Don't even say goodbye. Walk away.

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Wondergirl got it spot on. There aint no trying. Its a done deal. Walk away and tell her to do likewise. You arent interested in her friendship. That went out the door when she left you.

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How do you try NC when the girl still wants to be friends with you?
As the others have pointed out, you DO no contact, and what she wants is no longer your problem, your healing, is the top priority.
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Old Dec 10, 2007, 06:18 PM   #6  
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Update: I'm trying no contact with her but it's only been for a few hours. She's been flirting a lot with another guy so that should keep her occupied. I'm just going to have nothing to do with her for a while and get my head back into place. Can anybody out there tell me how could girls break a guy's heart this bad, and move on so quickly?
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Turn the tables around buddy. Seems she has control.

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I'm just going to have nothing to do with her for a while
No, not "for a while." For good. Forever.
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Old Dec 10, 2007, 09:15 PM   #9  
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my x is the same, i said nc but kept kalling me, and stupid me answering his calls. but now he just gave up on us and said that it was ok. that he was not going to kall me no more, and.... i dont know i miss him.
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If you mean why do people change, and want to do something different? They just do as there is a big world to explore. Your inexperience with dealing with your feelings has a lot to do with your pain also, add the expectation of a relationship lasting forever, and you have heartbreak, and of course, we are in shock about it too. Most times our exes have been think of leaving for a while before they tell us, so they have had time to get used to the idea, and are seldom in the shock we are, so it seems as if they are moving on quicker.
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