How to hurt a married man

Wow..Askmehelpdesk.com women are going in heavy on this one. I feel sorry for this woman.

She is the other woman but the husband is the real dirt bag.

They both were equal participants in this. She was blinded by false "love" and hurt by the lies from a man who seems to have no problem with hurting and deceiving others. It's sad that it happened to her but she walked into it on her own free will.

Getting revenge on this guy isn't going to do her any good in the long run instead owning up to her part in it and moving on from him will.

Gotta spread the rep Foxcash...You are so right!

Quick question.

Did you know that he was married when you started this affair? If so, then you do bear some of the responsibility.

Time to move on though and learn. Mistakes make us who we are today if we learn from them and grow.

Stringer

I'm afraid I don't feel sorry for her; other than that she is hurting. She knew what she was doing when she went into it. Plenty of blame to go around. It is unfortunate that she was led to believe something different, and now hurts from it, but she should have done the right thing to begin with and avoided getting involved with a married man. She would have saved herself the pain.

Hard lesson learned.

He can't be a dirt bag without a willing participant.

He didn't twist her arm or drag her to his cave by her hair. She knew what she was doing....got to spread the rep Doulac C.



Feel sorry for the wife and the kids. They are getting the short end of the stick.

You want to really hurt him, then move on, forget about him, and find someone else that will really love you.

And sorry but you knew he was married, and know that men all lie about leaving their wife's

"...and know that men all lie about leaving their wife's."

Well now that's a broad statement with out fact or bases of validation, a.k.a. BS.

How many married men do you know that screw around? It's not B.S.
There are good men who don't mess around. Most married men who cheat ARE NOT going to tell the girl he's married, or if he does he's making up lies, I.e. My wife is frigid, my wife doesn't understand me.
My wife and I are staying together only until the kids are older. My own personal favorite which has been used numerous times on friends of mine is, "our marriage has been over for years and we haven't had sex
In years, but I can't leave her or she'll take everything. Men and women lie if they are in an affair.

I agree, both men and women will tend to lie while in an affiar. Either to their spouse, the 'other' person, or themselves. That is my opinion.

But please, don't try to pass off generalizations and opinions as fact. To say, "...and know that men all lie about leaving their wife's." is just as much a generalization and opinion as, "Most married men who cheat ARE NOT going to tell the girl he's married, or if he does he's making up lies, I.e. My wife is frigid, my wife doesn't understand me. My wife and I are staying together only until the kids are older."

Response like that claiming “all men this…” or “all women that…” just show the posters opinion of the selected gender and/or their bruised egos because, well… they lived it.