hey guys


Well ok some of you know theres a chick at my work that likes me she has a boyfriend.. and is my friends roomate so we live together basicly.. she jumped on me when she was going into a ruff patch with her boyfriend.. i did kiss her a lot and hug her but no sex as i didnt trust the girl and didnt wanna get involed..

now that they are back.. im happy for them.. but i wanna stay away as i know if we get close things could happen.. and i so dont want that.. so im being nice in the work place but not over nice..

she is not taking the hint. she keeps starting conversations with me talking to me.. laughing playing around.. im all for if we had a real friendship but we never did... id be happy if it was just short and sweet only talk when needed.. coz other than that it just feels wierd to be alone with it..

anyway i dont wanna say go away! i dont want your friendship.. but iv tryed not talking that has not worked lol oh yeah im all for telling her how i feel and that.. but as we live and work together im trying to not have any tention.. even though this is giving me a little bit of it.. if i told her to sod off.. it would make everything really bad.. and i dont want that

any pointers guys??

tinsign

Well same advice as i told my son..you apparently do have to work with her..my son does also
Do not approach her if she says hello a brief hello back is alright and keep going to what you were doing.
The next thing is you must find a new place to live immediately if you can't afford it find a person looking for a renter also.

EnglishRose

I thgnk the answer to this is be civil. Say Hi but dont continue conversations. If she asks how you are say fine but dont elaberate. I'm sure she knows what is going on but doesn't realise how hard it is for you. Just let it be a lesson learnt. Just because a relationship is on the skids it is not over and getting involved in any way never helps. Sad but true xx