How to get my fiance back?

Dude you have waited two months and if she isn't over it or wants you back you have to get over the romantic notions, and regroup. How old are you both? How long have you been together?

Being dumped sucks for any reason, and I presume you still are talking, right? No wonder you are a mess. get hold of yourself, dude.

Give her the ring, or let her keep it if she already has is. Cut all ties, go no contact, and stop COMMUNICATION with her... this is only going to hurt YOU. You need to start getting over her.

we were best friends for years before we dated and it happened out of the blue i was shaky for this exact reason that if we got together and break up it will ruin what we had.she voiced that she is still pissed about the first time she proposed and i told her i wasnt a hundred that this girl deserves my all may seem silly but back then i thought honesty was key.we are both in our mid twenties i just felt misunderstood i wasnt given a fair chance to rebuild i guess.we spoken like three time over the 2 months she kept back and forth that she wanted to eventually then she said she loves me but its not enough to save us.she has voiced that she is still mad and upset at me etc and we can talk as along as its not pertaining to anything personal with us.i still have the ring both of em cause i made plans to give her the one i bought on a special occasion now idk its still hers and i will give her but i told her when we bother in a good place mentally and emotionally and she has forgiven me and we can part like mature people or even start a new better friendship from scratch.we ended on a silly accident drinking and tempers flaring but thats no excuse.but she believes i have no reason to be mad she was the one was embarrassed shes very prideful like that

we were together for 3 yrs

The reasons don't matter, and for your own sake, leave her alone while you make healing a priority, NOT a friendship. Keep the rings, or better yet, pawn them, sell them, or see how you feel after 6 months of solid uninterrupted healing.

Thank you that is great advice i wont pawn them i will keep them and as time goes by i will see if my feelings remained the same.I still get the anxiety of seeing her so soon after and i make all efforts such as avoiding regular hang out spots i know that can not last forever but just for now. i spent most time at home reading and focusing on school and a new career anything i can do to distract myself but the world is so small as the saying goes worst living in a small country

A close friend of ours birthday is coming up and my anxiety level is high from seeing she has verbal stated she s still mad and upset at me and as such I know she will be cold and try to alienate me because that her natural defense mechanism.I haven't seen her since February its odd but instead of me feeling less for her I feeling more and its nerve wrecking I seriously need some advise she's my first true love and even when I focus on her negative aspects I can't stay mad for long I accept her for who she is.All these emotions and heartache is new to me and this is not even my first relationship .PLease help

By now you must be recognizing you are allowing your own feelings to drive you crazy. If you aren't going to a party to mingle and have fun with friends you simply don't go. If you are so scared of seeing an ex, and can't be civil, no matter what, or ignore her, then you better stay at home.

If you have so little faith in your self control, then thats the issue to address. Its only been a month or so, and while old feelings linger for a while after a break up, you don't let them drive you crazy. Anxiety is a form of FEAR, and requires COURAGE to overcome it.

thank you for the honesty its true i decide i wont go i know can control my posture but my eyes are a dead give away yes that fear is there so i will not go im just not ready for that encounter as yet.

Good decision based on facts you know about yourself.