Hi Everyone, I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 months we got on really well mostly meet the weekends as he worked about 3hrs away and worked long hrs. He is a quite but really nice there isnt too many off them out there. Well he finished with me and i didnt see him for a while after but when i did we got talking and he has been out most weekends in the same place as i go and comes over taking to me he is the one that makes the effort not me!! His friend told my friend that he told him that "He was mad about me" but i dont know why he finished with me if that is the case?

I have had plenty of offers since my ex-boyfriend but i am not interested as i still like him, my friend said that we were not going to be out the following weekend and he said in shock "why where will ye be" so i was thinking if he wasnt interested in me he wouldnt have reacted in this way, i have seen him looking at me and he says my name alot in conversation but the only thing is i dont know how he feels about me if it is the case he just wants to be friends with me or wants to build the friendship first and then say something to me. There was a case where i felt he wanted to talk to me but somebody else interrupted. I dont know how to find out how he feels, i would prefer if he was the one that came to me since he finished it and if i say something i would never know if he wanted me, i dont know please help what should i do as this is driving me mad.

Thanks

Krs

Honey the only way you can find out what he feels is you ask him personally yourself.
Coz if you asked your friends to ask him, than that would be childish.
Save beating around the bush and wondering, than you totally know where you stand and that way what you got to lose??!
Think about it

Wildcat21

Nothing is magically going to happen........you need to talk with him right now and share your feelings. You will at least get your answer.

talaniman

A friendly face to face would clear the air. Call him and arrange it as soon as possible. Be prepared tho for whatever!

Daladier

you should just ask him!At the end of the day what have you got to lose,plus at least you'll learn for definite where you stand.
I've been in a similar situation before and I was so glad I asked because we ended up together.
You should ask him why he broke it off,maybe then you guys can work on the faults then aswell.
Good Luck!

Krs

Infact before i started dated my hubby, i obviously fancied the pants off him and all my mates used to tell me " fancies you too " but i was never sure of it... so what did i do, i found the right place and time when we were alone an di just asked him and told him how i felt... 8 years later - we're married

fredg

Hi,
You have some good answers so far.
Would just like to add that 2 months isn't a very long time at all. I've been married for 29 yrs, to a wonderful woman.
All your questions can be answered by talking with him. Ask him about it. Be honest, and SMILE when you talk with him. Chances are, he has moved on. But, you will never know until you find out from him.
Best wishes.

amily

Hi there,
Ask him, this the only the way you can find out how he feels about you. Honestly do it as soon as you can, because if you dont then you will have all these questions in your head for the rest of your life and you will wonder what would have happened if you did ask him. Dont wait around any longer, just do it. I know its hard, I have been there myself a few month ago, but trust me you will feel so much better after and who knows maybe there is a chance of you two getting back together again Best of luck!