How do you or any one for that matter get there man to fall in love with them all over again and to be able to tell if that person really loves them because that person does not show emotions well?

Kevin_s

Hello,

First of all, can you give some more information on the situation? It would be easier to figure out and provide you with the best assistance if we knew more about the situation.

My general advice (which may not apply but I hope it helps. I am currently going through certain similar situations) is that sometimes people hit roadblocks. And when they hit these certain roadblocks, they do not know what they want, need, etc. You're companion may not show emotions well for a number of reasons. My girlfriend tries to be all tough and independent and she does not show her emotions much if at all. This is hard for me because I am a very emotionally attached person.

There isn't anything you can or SHOULD do, you can not make someone fall in love with you, you can simply hope that your love and admiration for one another can be a strong enough bond to help each other grow.

Remember, if you feel like something is different or changing, you're probably right. I suggest talking to your partner about what you feel and try to be understanding of the reaction he may give. Ask him if there is anything going on in his life and if there is anything you can do to help.

Sometimes its hard to be there for the relationship when you're feeling hurt. My girlfriend has asked for breaks for certain reasons and though I have been extremely hurt by these actions, I know that I can not force her to stay nor is it my place to do so. So I have to be understanding of what she wants/needs and hope that the work I've put into the relationship will show it's true self.

I hope this helps, and good luck!

Kevin