How Do You No If They Love You If They Cheated?

blueeyeswonder · Sep 5, 2009, 05:27 PM

My Bf Has Cheated On Me And Im Not Sure If He Loves Me?
How Would I No If He Does?
He Says He Loves Me And That But I Dunno I Guess!!!
Dunno If It Me Being Stupid

Help x

Romefalls19 · Sep 12, 2009, 02:52 PM

Well my first red flag, if you're on a forum, asking if you love someone, then no you don't.

Also, cheating, if you have taken him back, then you cannot hold it against him still. As bad as it sounds, you forgave him by taking him back. This relationship sounds toxic, so why are you still in it?

blueeyeswonder · Sep 14, 2009, 05:28 AM

Threads merged and edited.

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...lk-303157.html

Hey i have been with my bf for 10 months

I do love him but sometimes I don't feel it, don't know if it because we are together all the time

Is it normal too feel like this help

i do love him most the time though, but sometimes i don't

help wb

desertstar36 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:23 PM

That is totally normal to feel it sometimes and not others. I have been with my husband for 15 years I know by now that I do love him, but there are certainly days that I can't stand him. The more time you spend together the more you might irritate each other, but it is all a part of love and life.

amicon · Sep 15, 2009, 03:36 AM

why do you want to stay with someone who s cheated?by taking him back you re telling him cheating s ok.i think you should take time out and discover what you really want and need in life.

blueeyeswonder · Sep 15, 2009, 07:07 AM

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html
no i took him back cuz i love him n i ave told him if he ever cheats agen then we will be over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thanks desertstar36 im glad im not the only 1 who feel the same

thanks agen x

ZoeMarie · Sep 15, 2009, 09:30 AM

You're only 18. There's no reason you need to put up with this. Realize, while you're still young, that this stuff doesn't fly. You telling him that if he ever cheats again that it's over will only give him more reason to hide it if he does. That's just my opinion.

j_ely823 · Sep 15, 2009, 12:49 PM

Depending on the relative maturity of your relationship I say that if you intend on being with him for a long time, then sit down and have a talk with him. He violated the relationship and so now his commitment is in question. Tell him that. Ask him what he thinks he can to to otherwise prove that he is trustworthy. However, I do have to say if he didnt love you enought to not cheat on you, then what does he have to show for now? He cant consequently love you more after he cheated on you, but he can have newfound respect for you and the relationship. if youve onlly been together for a few months and you dont anticipate progressing to a new level or overcoming this, I say you should break up with him. Its probably what most of us should have done....