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How do you make your ex realize what he had?
Asked Jun 3, 2009, 08:17 AM
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14 Answers My ex and I dated for 5 months. Everything was going GREAT, until a couple weeks ago. He wasn't acting like himself. I went over his house one night, and he told me things weren't working out and that he didn't want to be with me. I knew something was wrong, so I asked him why? He told me it was because of my 2 kids (boys), which he knew about, and said it didn't bother him from the beginning of our relationship. He told me he cares about me a lot, but wasn't sure if he felt the same way about me, as I felt about him. I want to get him back, but I have no idea how to go about it? |
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| Unfortunately sometimes people feel guilty for what they said to you and they know it hurt you so he kicked around the soccer ball with you just like a friend. That kind of relationship is dangerous because if you don't let go and you keep thinking that something is going to happen 9/10 it won't happen he'll find somebody else and you'll be stuck holding the bag. If you know that you can just be his friend without doing anything and you know what I mean,let it go and move on because you're just going to get hurt in the end. I've been there to... | ||||
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| Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you because of your kids? It's great that he was honest. Kids first, men later. I really can't believe your considering "getting him back". Imagine how he'd make your children feel. Unwanted. There'll be no positive outcome from being with him. He already told you what was up. Why mess with it? You could ruin your relationship with your children because of it. So my question is: are your children more important than this or any other future man? Sarah | ||||
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| I agree with what has been posted here but I have to add that your children are forever yours. Don't stay with a man who is unable to love them like you are no matter how much you believe you love him. You might want to get him back now but what about the future? People don't change that easily on things that are big issues such as kids. He will always neglect your kids and try to push them away. Please don't allow your kids to grow up in a non-loving environment. | ||||
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