okay ive been with my ex boyfriend for about 3 months we were happy and we had a good time.all of a sudden he had broken up with me because he was having problems and his dad had past away.we havent talk for a couple weeks but when i went back to schoolwe started talking and he had called me and told me that he still have feelings for me and he felt bad for what he did and he also that he was stupid for breaking up with me.then the next day in class i asked him if he would get back with me and he said he wouldnt mind getting back with me.we were talking and then after school he pulled me to the side and asked me would be my girlfriend again so i said yeah sure and then 3 days later i broke up with him because everything wasnt the same. we havent talked for a couple of weeks.then i found out he had another girlfriend so i got sort of hurt and when he would be with her he would always call me and i think its wrong to call an ex while your dating someone.so he would always find a reason to talk to me he would tell me oh im single and the next day i would see him with his girlfriend..but then he would always call me he would always say hi to me and find a reason to talk to me and when i was with my new boyfriend he would always look at me while i was with him.and i think it seems that hes trying to get my attention.now he doesnt have no girlfriend and we've been hanging out lately and talking bout what has happened with us in the past and today he put his arm around me and he asked me if i was mad at him becuase he thought i was mad at him and npw were stillg ood friends and we act like nothing wrong has happened can anyone tell me what they think??/ please please!

N0help4u

it sounds like he likes you but you have to communicate more.
You say you broke up with him because it wasn't the same. Next time you have to discuss it with him and give him a chance. He has feelings too and he may not have even been over his dad yet.

SJB1701E

A) Its not going to be the same. you have to start a NEW relationship and rebulid trust
B) Losing someone as important as your Dad is hard and he will probably be dealing with those feelings for a long time
C) You only gave it 3 DAYS before deciding it "wasn't the same"?!?! Come on! You need to learn some patience and give it TIME. Also refer to (A)
D) You really should take some time and sort out your own feelings I'm not entirely sure what you want and I don't think you do either
E) You REALLY REALLY need to communicate with him open and honestly about your feelings and find out his intentions

talaniman

I think you would be happier with someone new, who didn't try to pull the wool over your eyes, with another female. Just because he is free, doesn't mean he has changed for the better. You can do better than him.

mafiaangel180

Drama, drama drama!! lol. The best thing to do is remove yourself from it! You said yourself that you went back out with him and it wasn't the same so you dumped him. Congrats to you for knowing what you did and didn't want. So don't even bother with this guy anymore. There are tons of guys out there who can be what he wasn't. But first, why not focus on you and your schooling?

Smoked

Losing a loved one is hard. Losing your dad is, I couldn't describe. Keep that in mind when you think he is acting weird.

Your a girl, you have all the power here. He had another girl? During your relationship? Just after? He didn't seem to have any real problem moving on from your previous relationship? Do you think he did it to get your attention? All great questions, now go ask him.