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me and my boyfriend have a son togeather we have been togeather for 2years.he dosent talk much about are problems.finaces,an ext.he has school 3 nights a week n meetings twice a month.we dont fight much,and allround he is a good man.but i dont think he loves me.he just not an open person.and its hard for me to be home by myself alot with kids.we have 3all togeather.and they fight all the time.he knows im not happy,and that i want him to open up to me,and i still get nothing.i know im not first on his list.please help
You need to consult a relationship/marriage counselor right away to discuss the pros and cons of your feelings. He may be too self-centered just now and need some re-direction from someone other than you.
I agree. Talking to a counselor is a great idea! Don't give up until you try to work it out first, especially since you have kids together. My fiancee doesn't talk a whole lot either. I mean he's a great guy, but just has a quiet personality. I love him, but it does drive me bonkers sometimes! So I understand that!
Talking to a counselor can help both of you learn better ways to communicate, deal with issues etc. If it isn't possible financially, consider reading a relationship book together or, if you are religious, maybe meeting with a religious leader so he/she can help you talk about your relationship issues.
Like the others said, definately go to counseling together. And btw, just because a man isn't open doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I hope everything works out for you.
thanks for advice,i need it.it just hard to keep trying to make things work,when he seems to add more activities to his schedule.when i always tell him i need a break.or make a remark about it must be nice to have a life.we do things as a family.but never just me and him.and i tell him i wanted to go back to school,but i have to wait tell he can stay with the kids.sometime i think am i the one being selfish.cause i need more help at home.sometimes i think i will have more flexibility if i left him.
we have a 11month old son,and i have a 7 yearold,he has a 13,and 15 year old daughters,the 13 year old lives with us and the 15 year old comes on weekends.im 27,and he's 35.we got a big family all ages.lol.wow...
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