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IT'S CALLED FOREPLAY. LOOK INTO IT.
If you are a man, I'm addressing this to you. Yes, you. The one who proudly boasts that what I'm about to write doesn't apply to you. You know how to please a woman. You do everything right. No woman ever complains about you.
Not to your face anyway.
Women talk. And if there's one thing I've learned from listening to these talks, it's that no matter what you're doing, you need to do it longer. Yes, LONGER. As in taking your time. Slowing the heck down. Kissing her. Touching her. Engaging her mind.
What?
What does her mind have to do with it?
Everything. Foreplay starts here.
(Picture me pointing to my brain.)
It's the way you look at her when you tell her she looks beautiful. It's the way your fingertips settle into the small of her back as you guide her through a doorway. It's the way you whisper in her ear what you want to do to her later that evening...
You could drag foreplay on for hours before you even hit the bedroom. And then, once you're in the bedroom, your natural inclination will be to throw her down on the bed and go straight to it. After all, that's what passion is all about, isn't it?
Sure. Unbridled passion has its place. We all like to be shoved against a wall and taken every now and then. But there is a difference between passionate impatience and just...impatience. And if you're expecting her to enjoy things, you might want to stop. Take a breath. Slow it down a notch or ten.
First, kiss her. And keep kissing her. Touch her face. Touch her hair. Touch...everything else. And I do mean EVERYTHING ELSE. Remember when you were fifteen and you couldn't do anything more than make out so you'd kiss and touch for hours on the sofa? We aren't asking for hours but how about a minute or two? And, while you're at it, add ten minutes to that.
Then, since you're kissing her, kiss her all over. Tease her. Count to a thousand and you still probably haven't been teasing her long enough. Make her beg.
I'm going to say all this but you still aren't going to listen. I think, when it comes to sex, there's man time and woman time and I think a man thinks he's been doing something for ten minutes when it's really only been ten seconds. Kinda like if I had an ice cream sundae in front of me and was told I couldn't eat it until ten minutes had passed.
According to Mars and Venus in the Bedroom, we make love to the other person the way we want to be made love to. Notice how women are all kissy and touchy and you're just thinking, "Why doesn't she get there already?" There's one spot you want her attention to be focused on and it isn't your left ribcage. Well, we're doing what we want YOU to be doing. Hint, hint.
Women have hot spots all over our bodies. You kiss our left calf and it's going to do something to us. You touch that spot on the inside of our elbow and we'll squirm. But you don't touch that because you think only one spot really matters. Okay, maybe a couple of other spots too. And you're ready to get down to business before you've even hit the bedroom door. So you rush...and then later, if someone asked if you engaged in foreplay, you would say:
"Well...yeah. I kissed her."
For twenty seconds. | 
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