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I am trying to figure out how to stop loving the guy I was involved with for the last 2 years. I don't know how to stop loving him.
The constant thoughts of him are on my mind. Even when I am busy at work. What he's done to me mentally has literally destroyed me. I think it was all the lies and broken promises of our lives together.
I don't even want to get dressed in the morning, I feel pathetic... I was never this kind of person before. I don't understand how to get over a broken heart of this guy.
Has anyone experienced a similar situation??? And how long does it take to get over loving someone.
The thing with break-ups is that we tent to forget the bad stuff and just remember the good stuff. You need turn this around, remember the bad stuff and forget the good stuff. Remember how he treated you, how much he hurt you. Look forward not back, and keep very, very busy. If you have no contact and don’t see him and manage to get rid of everything that reminds you of him, I think six to eight weeks should be enough for you to turn things around. Be good to yourself. Don’t beat yourself up wondering if it would have been different if you had done this or that. If it was meant to be it would have worked out. Try to be thankful that it was only two years. The longer you are with someone the more it hurts when it ends.
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