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    Green Elephant Posts: 106, Reputation: 8
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    Jan 8, 2009, 12:15 PM
    How do I handle these thoughts?
    I dated this girl for 2 years. When she broke up with me, she listed a bunch of reasons that didn't add up, and did not make sense. Of course my friends would tell me where they saw her and who she was hanging out with, and it rocked my stomach every time.

    She later came back to me saying she made a massive mistake and we've been dating again for about 2 months. Bottom line, when she came back to me, she admitted that she had slept with two guys, and messed around with a third. I'm dealing with forgiving her for the fact that I didn't pursue a single girl when we were apart, and she gave herself to 3 different guys.

    I love her more than I can say, and she's doing very well gaining my trust back. I was just wondering if anyone had advice to how I handle the images of her being with these guys (that I know personally, but obviously are not friends with) intimately.

    Thanks
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Jan 8, 2009, 12:20 PM

    Don't think about it, simple as that. I know it is easier said than done, but seriously, don't torture yourself over this. What she did while you two were broken up is irrelevant, so... leave it where it belongs, in the past. Your mind could kill you with all of the stupid irrational stuff it thinks of, so don't let it.

    She is with you now, so enjoy that, and don't let your insecurities tear this relationship up, AGAIN.
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