how do i get a girl that has a bf

carout · #1 May 24, 2007, 08:40 PM

i like this really hot gurl but she has a bf i met her like a mounth a go only talked to her once then met up with her last week and i asked her for her e-mail she gave it to me and then after i asked her if she wanted to hang out she said sure but she brought a friend along anyways we saw a movie together she flirted with me abit and made contact by pushing me or punchin me slightly so i thought uno she liked me after a few weeks but then i asked her about her bf she says she loves him and is happy with him but yet she flirts with me alot and we hang out alot to so does this mean anything or am i jus always ganna be friends with her

BlazingCold · May 24, 2007, 08:43 PM

First....please use punctuation, reading one LONG run on sentence isn't pleasant.

Second...You can't get her. She already has a bf. Leave her alone and find someone else. If she's willing to cheat on her bf with you, then she can cheat on you with the next guy.

TrueFaith · May 24, 2007, 09:17 PM

Hey man i couldnt agree more with BlazingCold.. not the whole sentence bit

gramma isnt my strong point either.. but the leave her alone part and, if she does that to him she will do it to you my friend.. he is a 100% right..

i know iv done it before.. iv gotten the girl.. stolen her away from the boyfriend.. then she leaves me for someone eles... and i end up feeling the victum.. when really it was my fault to start with..

i know its hard.. we cant control how we feel. but we can control how we act.. at least leave her alone while she has a boyfriend.. for the time now go out meet others

.. then later on down the road... if things are different.. then so be it

a girl i know has a boyfriend she jumps on me all the time.. and she says she loves him to everyone eles.. some people just keep people around for safty.. or for a toy.. and those are the people you really dont wanna be with

fix-what-you-broke · May 24, 2007, 11:46 PM

you have to respect the fact that she is with someone else.if she has told you she is happy with him you may be mistaking flirting with friendliness.she is off limits.

Jiser · May 25, 2007, 12:23 AM

erm? What sort of person are you, respect their relationship and don't ruin what anyone else has. Shes taken so leave it as that. Have a happy life and do things you enjoy, she may want a part of that one day. At the moment keep it as friends, if you feel urself wanting more and more maybe its a time to back of a bit.

carout · May 25, 2007, 04:08 AM

[wow u guys al have good points maybe i should jus leave her alone. And be friends with her but damn it she is really kool.

Jiser · May 25, 2007, 04:19 AM

Yeh good idea, leave her alone. Let her be, if she has feelings for you she will let you know but don't try ruin anything that she has. A result of that will be undue stress on all of you. Remember plenty more fish in the sea, stay as friends for now but if you find it to difficult get on with your own life without her.



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