Recently the guy I have been dating for about a year, who I am dearly in love with but has never stated any feelings for me, sent me this text message. What if I confessed my love for you and said I can't live without you would you follow me to Japan? He is moving to Japan for four years (military). He still wont say his true feelings so how should i take this??

frangipanis

oops! Should have quoted and responded rather than rating HistoryChick's answer

Mostly I thought HistoryChick's answer honed in on the question that being asked.

Altenweg

Sound to be like he's testing the waters before he dives in. It seems to me that he's afraid of getting hurt and therefore wants to know how you feel before he admits how he feels. Follow you gut and heart, make a list of pros and cons, be honest with yourself and him.

Number one thing though, if you don't think you'll be happy with him or in Japan then you shouldn't go, this decision requires allot more conversation between the two of you, obviously there isn't much of that at this time. Talk, talk, talk, list, list, list, and then decide.

Good Luck.