How to convince the girl I like the most to marry me?

talaniman · Feb 28, 2012, 03:45 PM

I think we all have those bad or sad feelings when things in our romantic life screws up, or it just stops working despite all our efforts, and high hopes for things to be great forever.

Acting on those feelings by continuing to push for what you want makes things worse, sometimes a lot worse. Thats when we have to handle our feelings and do the right thing for ourselves by letting go when our romantic interest no longer has an interest.

My experience in these matter says, the quicker you can let go, the quicker you can move on to the next adventure. There is always a next adventure waiting to be explored, when you let go of the last one that didn't work.

You have to refuse to let your feelings of sadness, and a broken heart dictate your actions and keep you stuck on a losing proposition. Thats why you bow out gracefully, disappear from her life, and keep your dignity, and self respect.

So you see its all about how YOU handle YOUR feelings. Not convincing her to forgive you, or give you another chance.

Alty · Feb 28, 2012, 03:54 PM

You lied, that's the bottom line.

You went from a guy she thought she could trust to someone she feels she can never trust again.

Yes, it was a big mistake, and she learned from it. Have you?

This girl is not going to give you another chance, and she doesn't have to. Learn from this mistake, move on, and if you're lucky enough to meet someone else that you care about, be honest about everything. Trust in a relationship is the number one most important thing.

day2012 · Mar 4, 2012, 12:21 AM

Ya Alty, Its true I have played with her mind at the end which lead to the real end of the story. I fooled myself by saying something negative about myself. Its nothing but human psychology which happened in her case too. I have no idea how to replace those negative opinion about me with the positive or at least to the reality. I thought she has got good understanding and aware of my statements are not true and wont effect in any manner. In fact she too did the same thing to me earlier but I took it positively. She was the one Iv found after long long search, but now its too difficult to accept the fact. 3months of effort to build a good relationship broken within a day for no real reason. Its not easy to find someone whos almost perfect the way we want. Its not her beauty but other qualities and also her family. It was Gods gift that I found her somehow but lost because of my own mistake which is hard to digest. Any way thanks for all those who responded.

amicon · Mar 4, 2012, 12:42 AM

Then learn from the mistakes you made and focus on your future-perfection is an illusion-getting to know someone and building a real relationship takes time and effort.

Good luck.

pyaar guru · Jul 21, 2012, 06:40 AM

what ever happened is just happened. but one thing is sure if u act like begging and begging again for love i am sure she will lose interest in u very soon. act like u will get a lot more girls better than her. try to avoid her if she isn't interested in u. thing will get more worse after ur marriage.so try to find a girl who love u as soon as possible. time will heal all the wounds. all the best

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