he broke up with me

wannabehappy · #1 Feb 25, 2008, 05:32 AM

our relationship began when we were 15. when we were 19 i broke up with me because i thought i was in love with another guy but soon i realized that i really loved the fisrt one, so i tried to get him back and i did. we get together again and i was sure about my feelings, he was the love of my life...but he broke up, we werw almost celebrating our 7 birthday. sometimes i think he still loves me and lasts 2weeks i realized that he really thinks he's the one for me...he really thinks he's the only one for me...i really love him, i wish to get him back, but i dont know what exactly do. someone help me please! now we are 22 year old.

JL FANATIC · Feb 28, 2008, 06:45 AM

Let him know how you feel, you are at a stage where that is the most smallest thing in a relationship. You have to show him that he can trust you. You have to trust him to. Call him, BE HONEST that is the best start

confused25 · Feb 28, 2008, 08:14 AM

Why did he break up with you? Did he tell you himself that he feels that he is the only one for you?

wannabehappy · Feb 28, 2008, 12:29 PM

i think he broke up maybe because he needs some time be alone...or to have all the time to work.he didnt tell me "i know i'm the only one" but he did some things that showed me that he thinks this way. last week he gave a concert at a bar, but i didnt go. some days after i let him know that i moved from our country, and he told me "i knew it..if you didnt go it only could be because you're not here"...so i think he really thinks he's very special to me, and i dont want him to feel it, because i (almost) know that if he feels it is because he knows i'll always be there for him and he will never miss me...
i decided NO CONTACT, i dont call him, i dont send him messages, i never start to chat with him...he doesnt call me or send messages, but everytime he sees me online he chat with me and asks me if i wont comeback to our city.
tomorrow night i'm going to see a very nice concert that if he could, he would goes to..so, i dont know if its a good idea send him a short mail just to say i remembered of him...someone give me a good advice, please

in a state · Feb 28, 2008, 12:54 PM

don't send him anything.remember ''he knows i'll always be there for him and he will never miss me...''-your own words.so stay put
go to the concert,have a good time,enjoy it
maybe you'll see him there,maybe you won't...but try to make the best of it.it's not everyday that there is a concert you love

wannabehappy · Mar 6, 2008, 12:50 PM

hi again! I went to the concert, it was awesome. this week me and my ex chat by messenger and it was nice, not much time but was good. we didnt talk about feelings,just about simple things. yesterday he sent me a funny email, but just for me...yesterday i comeback to my country, but as i did when i did go, i didnt tell him nothing, he knew it later. but today we met on the streets, he was on the bus and sent me a message asking me to wait him because he wanted talk to me...we talked for half an hour, was nice too. but i realized that sometimes he seems wanna talk about breakup or something...i didnt want, so i just gave him short answers, always with a big smile on my face and start another topic. when he went to the other side of the street to get his bus, i sit on my bus stop and began reading my book as it was very natural....did i act right? what should i do now? nothing, right?



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