how can i spice up my relationship?

rawr_itssonya · #1 Sep 28, 2009, 02:40 AM

my somewhat new (approximately 4 months) boyfriend and i are seemingly very happy with each other right now, and we have yet to get in a fight about anything at all. we're both completely honest and open with each other about EVERYTHING. on the outside everything couldn't be anymore perfect, but on the inside, i feel as if something is missing. i feel like i bore him in a weird subconscious way and i would hate for him to get so bored that he started searching for someone better. i guess im just being insecure, but i feel like he somehow hates the fact that everything is so drab and lacks spontaneity. what can i do to bring him back into that state of ecstasy that you feel when you can't get enough of someone?

TheCompromiser · Sep 28, 2009, 03:26 AM

Try these sites. They may help.

Fifteen Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life | The New Homemaker

18 Budget Friendly Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship … | All Women Stalk

redhed35 · Sep 28, 2009, 03:28 AM

not quite open and honest about everything if your feeling insecure...

there are loads of ways to mix it up,do what you feel comfortable with...if you have covered the basics,perhaps its time to introduce some games,dress up,role play,a bath together...loads of ways to mix it up..but remember a guy wont stay just becase the sex is good,he will stay if he feels a connection and develops feelings...a lot of relationships end at the 3 or 4 month mark,its like to get to know someone a little and decide its not for you,and move on,or you want to get to know them more.



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