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Dec 13, 2007, 01:21 PM
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| | | i guess i,m falling in love with a boy who used to be my best friend
hey , well
um so theres this boy , he,s my best friend .. but we,re only friends , and i kind of find out that i,m falling in love with him :'(
i don,t know , should i just stop thinking about him and stay friends because i don,t know if he has the same feeling :'( i,m confused
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Dec 13, 2007, 03:28 PM
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| i know its hard.
but youre gonna have to wait.
Sometimes, its best though not to fall for a best friend, because, the chances of ruining that friendship are very high.
Try focusing that energy on a new guy, and try to keep that friendship close.
i know that probably not what you want to hear... but, i think thats what yo need too do.
Who knows.. maybe he'll see wat an AMAZING friend you are.. and will start getting feelings for you too.
itll all work out.
i promise. |
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Dec 13, 2007, 06:14 PM
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#3
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| Warning, Once the relationship changes, you may not be able to go back to being friends
Its not unusual to have strong feelings for a friend, its normal. But should you act on them??? Give this a lot of time and thought, as the stakes are very high. | |
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Feb 7, 2008, 09:38 PM
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| hey my name is jasmine ummm ok this is what i think you should do drop hits to him | |
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Feb 7, 2008, 09:44 PM
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| If you ARE 19, and want to persue it, go for it. You can build the friendship slowly and see what happens... If you don't try, you may always wonder, what if you had tried.
Certainly, it might not work out, but at least you will know that you tried. If you wait and someone else comes along, then that too will change your friendship.
Good Luck. | |
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Feb 8, 2008, 07:43 PM
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| hey
it really depends on how you guys act around each other but maybe you could just come straight out with it, scary thought i know but just try it, say something like
" can i tell you a secret?.. i really like you"
and if it ruins your friendship then he wasnt much of a friend was he
he should accept you for who you are no matter how you feel about him
good luck! | |
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Mar 26, 2008, 12:50 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by enjay22 i know its hard.
but youre gonna have to wait.
Sometimes, its best though not to fall for a best friend, because, the chances of ruining that friendship are very high.
Try focusing that energy on a new guy, and try to keep that friendship close.
i know that probably not what you want to hear... but, i think thats what yo need too do.
Who knows.. maybe he'll see wat an AMAZING friend you are.. and will start getting feelings for you too.
itll all work out.
i promise. |
well u know, my brothers. Ex-GF now. was just friends which used to be all of Our best friends. now. . nothing dont talk to eitherof them. after they got together.. | |
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Mar 26, 2008, 09:16 AM
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| Um, you feel love, um, "YOU" have that feeling and that's all you need to know. Time will tell, be, um, patient and be yourself... | |
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