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    Asked Dec 17, 2011, 05:16 AM 7 Answers
    How can I prove to my boyfriend that I love him, and only him, and that I won't cheat. He's always asking me to prove I love him, but I don't know how to, and he seems to think am going to cheat, when am not.

    I really love him, and I just feel like if I don't prove that I love him, I am going to be in tears XxxxxX

    Last edited by talaniman; Dec 17, 2011 at 11:31 AM.
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    DaniCalifornia Posts: 655, Reputation: 151
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    Dec 17, 2011, 05:55 AM
    You can't prove it. He's going to have to accept it, or you simply can't be together.

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    talaniman Posts: 47,059, Reputation: 10289
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    Dec 17, 2011, 11:27 AM


    He either trust you or he doesn't, he either believe you or he doesn't.

    It's a big red flag if he doesn't and you better pay attention because this isn't about you and what you do, but him and whatever his issues are.

    He does have some issues he needs to address, and all the proof and reassurance in the world won't ever be enough. So make him face his own ISSUES, or be ready to leave. Yes this will get worse.

    How old are you both?
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    missjbtheboss Posts: 13, Reputation: 3
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    Dec 18, 2011, 04:49 AM
    His not the one for you any more why should people go around trying to prove something to somebody. You only have too know what you want in life and move on.

    It's time for you too move on you should not have tp prove anything to any body. You are going to have to decide what you want out of your relationship. And ask yourself is it worth holding on too.missjbtheboss
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    Dec 18, 2011, 10:04 AM
    First of all, you shouldn't have to prove him of anything. If you really love this guy, he should believe you. It's not your fault that he won't believe you. If he doesn't beloieve you, that means you deserve better. You deserve someone who will love you without a doubt of you not loving them. Everyone does. It's as simple a that.
    Hope I helped in some way.
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    odinn7 Posts: 6,547, Reputation: 1356
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    Dec 18, 2011, 10:10 AM
    As Tal said, the guy has his own issues. There is no need for you to prove anything to this guy. Has he proven anything to you? People like this aggravate me. This sounds like the start of him wanting to have control over you. You are brought to tears by him and his questions of being able to trust you. Does that really sound like a guy that loves you or more like someone who wants to be in control of you?

    I would have a talk with him and clear this up now... if he can't get over this and treat you better, it's time for you to move on and find someone who can and will.
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    Dec 18, 2011, 09:47 PM
    Not sure what he means by that.

    Ask him.

    Are you feeling love?

    Talking is key.
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    Dec 20, 2011, 10:04 AM
    Well its always good to talk & resolve things
    But then too if he is not getting things straight then there must be something that makes him think so..
    Find that out & resolve it
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