how can i find the right guy??????

ceriphante

look xbox and playstation 2, beer, strippers, working on engines, and your sister/friend/MOM (lol) are not dum, they're ALL perfectly good reasons to dump a girl!!!
ok so thats a complete LIE but i couldn't resist testing your sense of humour hey?...

There are actually lots of us nice guys out here just as there are lots of nice gals out there too its really not much more than a game of hit and miss, really, meet someone get to know them, be a little fussy not too fussy or you'll be old and lonely, if something works out great if it doesn't thats one less mr wrong you have to meet on your path to finding the right guy for you hey?

I gotta say though your question is really short, maybe enlighten us a bit further, like whats the situation that you ended up in? why'd ur last guy break up with you? maybe we can help...

and whats more, I think there's some truth about the older guys thing.. then they grow up and realise that sex isn't all they really need to be happy then they refuse to date younger girls anymore lol its wierd how life works hey? haha

LBP

Like's been said above... There's no 'finding' the right guy. You have to get to know someone before you can tell one way or ther other. Just, for the love of god, don't play any of the stupid games. Just be honest about what you're looking for and NEVER, EVER take the cowardly way out.

Also, if every guy you meet ends up being a bastard, maybe you need to take a long hard look at what men you find attractive... And do something about it. As in, maybe take a chance on the guy who isn't clearly a bastard.

SAB123

Sorry Tugman,I hate to say this but from reading your other threads you are going to be un dateable for a long time. You need to heal your heart first before looking for someone. When my ex broke up with me the first time I was devistated and wanted to find someone to fill the void I had in my heart from my loss. Your still young you have alot of living to do. You need to find yourself. I no you probally didn't want to hear this but this is reality.

dbennett24

dont look in the bars. unless that is what you like. usually guys in the bars are married, lots of problems. the good ones are at home mostly, but church is good, christian single groups, meetup.com. my son is single and joined meet-up. he is shy, but a great guy and that is where they start

ceriphante

just a little addendum to this
agreed that mostly the good ones are at home, though I disagree about churches and christian single groups I've met some of the most messed up girls EVER when partaking in religious groups.. so yeah you do not HAVE to rely on religious groups to find nice ppl btw, there are plenty of nice athiests out here *grin* :P~

i'll checkout meetup.com though dbennett24 thx for the tip