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I have be sleeping with a married man for the last 2 1/2 yr it may be 3 but anyway i really like this guy and im trying to hang in there cause when i try to ask him about us he alway say lets see how things go. Also when he goes on family vacations the day he comes back he comes see me. I don't know if he is say this because he miss me or just want to sleep with me. I would like to know if i should cause him is this going to go anywhere and have him think about it why he is on vacation with his family.
First i think you need to learn how to write properly or a bit better. Your writting is horrible and im sorry but i want to give some advice but i can't understand anything your saying.
Your a homewrecker, the other women. Your having sex with a married man, your a bad person and you clearly have no self-worth. If you did you wouldn't have degraded yourself in the first place. Grow up and get your own man. Doubt that will happen any time soon, because a REAL man doesn't want a women like you. Hopefully you'll grow up a bit and make some changes. Then later down the road maybe you'll be worthy of some real love. Other then that i think you deserve to be alone (without a relationship)
If you can't understand why he goes away with HIS family then your clearly in need of some professional help. You may have a screw lose upstairs. I suggest getting some help from someone professionally because they can help you understand what clearly your not. Also, they may be able to teach you better speech. Good luck. You need it. Ohh, and what goes around comes around. Years from now, if you get married and think life is good, i bet your husband will be out having sex with a women...then you'll feel tough love. Watch out for Karma, kicks you in the ars.
ok, what should i do , should i seat him down a tell him scent it does not look like they thing are not going will for me with use my be we should end it before someone should get hurt.
he goes on vacation with his family because he is a married man with a family.
i have no sympathy for you and im not sure you will get much here, maybe because people dont like homewreckers. (thats what you will be known as if this gets out...and it will get out.}
has it sunk in yet? im not getting at you, i dont know you, you can sleep with whomever you like, but at least make it a single man and not somebody elses husband.
he says "lets see how it goes" to keep you sweet for the next sex session he has with you, think about it, if he turned round and told you he is never going to leave his wife for you, you are not exactly gonna put out for him are you?
Im guessing he has also told you that him and his wife dont sleep together anymore/shes put on weight/they are not compatible/they fight a lot/he has to stay with her for (insert excuse here).....
call him, tell him you either want him with you perminantly, full time, by the end of next week or you will walk away, im betting you never hear from him again.
at least think of his wife in all this, as its bloody obvious nobody else is. how would you feel if your husband was out sneaking around in another womans bed?
what goes around comes around....if you are dishing it, at least know if you can take it when it happens to you.
I went around with a married man and you can never know their intentions....but am glad I got out of it pretty quickly than I assumed I would, though I was married too....but knew what I was doing was unethical...each to his own...and when I thought of his wife, I wondered what she would go thru if she ever got to know....think about other people involved and not always about yourself.
This is what i wrote the last person told me that i should not answer his phone call and if he keeps calling to call the police. And i said I can not do that because im cool with the family and we have some of the same friends and i would have to see him on holidays and birthdays.
and to RAYNEFREAK i don't need help i understand why his is going on vacation so you are miss reading what im writing so thank you. Look who is call themself a freak.
I think you are very vulnerable. I believe you are in love and in your heart of hearts you know exactly what is going on. Do you know if his wife knew what you guy's were up to he would LEAVE you in a heart beat! That's not love. If you like sitting in the cheap seats and observing this and playing the part then go ahead, but you are in a lose lose situation. Don't get me wrong though...He loves you, and cares for you and would be really jealous if you hooked up with someone else. Just so you know that is an obsession that never works out. I bet you are pretty, are you English or do you have another background?
I think you could do better, you have to face the facts that it's not going to end well. Rent "sidewalks of new york" that's a good movie to show you the inevitable outcome of an affair with the family man. Raynefreak...That was a harsh comment to post on here about litteracy, people can understand her even if you can't. It's a site for people of all educations and languages, I admire her for reaching out and asking questions even if there is a endless book of excuses to stay with the user.
and to RAYNEFREAK i don't need help i understand why his is going on vacation so you are miss reading what im writing so thank you. Look who is call themself a freak.
I think your completely childish. You clearly can't take constructive critisism. As for my name, im not calling myself a freak. Show's how little you know about ppl. Why do you call yourself Help? Because you need it? Come on, childish comment's. Their's nothing wrong with getting help from someone or talking to someone. I think that was a cheap shot, and for the record the name stems from a video game called BloodRayne. I don't know about you, but i play video games like an adict. Good luck to you. I think you took my words too out of context. Merely was advice. Take it or leave it.
yeah im in the same boat only im new to it...ive been seeing a married man for 3 months and i already dont know what to do.....3 years is a long time though....and its not all ur fault or my fault....and its not all about sex either....its so confusing...im very curious to know what happens...
Bottom line, you are postitioning yourself where you are not wanted. A commitment has been made this man and his wife. You have no business in this relationship.
You don't know what to do? Leave him alone. Respect the commitment of marriage. What goes around comes around. Some day you will know the pain that you are causing his wife. It's not pretty.
As for anyone else that is doing the same thing - the same advice applies. Get out and find a man of your own.
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