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Hindu girl deeply in love with a muslim guy. We both want to marry.

Asked Jun 6, 2009, 02:33 PM — 12 Answers
Hi friends, I am a hindu girl, deeply in love with a muslim guy. We are in relationship since four years. He is working abroad and has planned to settle down there. We want to marry but neither want to hurt our parents nor want the future of our siblings to be in mess. Please give me a way out. We love each other truly on the other hand respect our parents. My parents are ready for the love marriage but not with muslim. He talked to his mom, she is ready but his father will not agree to this because of religion thing. Loving someone is not a crime. I don't want to loose him. Want to marry him at any cost. We are ready to do anything to resolve the issue. Please GIVE ME A WAY OUT.

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Jun 6, 2009, 02:47 PM
"Want to marry him at any cost"-you

Are you listening ?

"Wisdom is everywhere, we need only listen."-Nestorian.
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Jun 6, 2009, 02:51 PM
Thank you for the reply. Sir can you please help me with the problem.
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Jun 6, 2009, 02:56 PM


You are going to have to make a choice -- please yourselves or please your families.
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Jun 6, 2009, 03:01 PM
I cannot make a choice both are equally important to me.
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Jun 6, 2009, 03:07 PM


You cannot have both options as long as family members will be unhappy with a marriage. Change the minds of the unhappy family members?
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Jun 6, 2009, 03:20 PM
Tell me what should I say that will convince them...........
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Jun 6, 2009, 03:40 PM
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Tell me what should I say that will convince them...........
Nothing, "you can't reason some one out of a possision that they didn't reason them selves into."-Unknown

What I meant by are you listening was did you see what you wrote, I quoted you, and you said you'd do "anything" to marry him. That was the anwser you gave us, and so it's the answer we must by default give to you, because we can not reason you out of the situation you have put yourself in.

Peace and kindness be with you.
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Jun 6, 2009, 03:48 PM
I personally think your going to marry him anyway despite what your family thinks and I think you came here for someone to tell you something like follow your heart blaa blaa blaa so you don't have to feel guilty.You know what the right thing to do is.We don't....
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Jun 6, 2009, 05:03 PM


Make this decision with him. Together. Then worry about taking on the world, if he is of the same feelings as you are.
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