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    gab2 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 27, 2007, 04:28 PM
    He's contacting me after he says he needs to 'get away'
    we dated for a couple months. Had a great connection( could have fun and also be serious... had similar morals/values/family background)... he moved it pretty quickly... made me a little nervous, but I went with it. Then, he said that it was too much too soon... that he needed to think and 'get away'. He did not use the phrase break up. Within days of the 'get away'... he begins txt. Message. Me... then emailing... then calling... then asked me once to get together ( I could not)... anyway... he's having almost daily contact with me... but hasn't specifically asked me out again. Why is he in this much contact so soon after saying he needed to 'get away'... I have not initiated any contact.
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    lost in my little head Posts: 24, Reputation: 2
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    Apr 27, 2007, 05:06 PM
    He definitely likes you there is no doubt about that. I think that he just is a little confused on what he wants with you as far as a relationship. Ask him what he wants and why he feels that he needs to get away. Take it a slower especially if your not ready to and tell him that. That way you won't regret anything.
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    Apr 27, 2007, 05:50 PM
    Us guys are really dumb... like others we don't realise what we have lost until we loose it, if he did't do anything wrong then give him another chance, but make sure your not easy and play hard to get, because he will run all over your next time, if it happens again, good luck
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    Apr 28, 2007, 05:45 AM
    He's trying to slow down, but doesn't quite know how, so its up to you to show him, and not just go along. You not contacting him has him scared also.
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    May 2, 2010, 04:36 PM

    What happened with you guys in the end? I'm going through a similar thing. He broke it off, said he needed a break though, then 10 minutes later texted me constantly for days. Its been 4 days, not sure what it means!

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