Hi I am a girl from the big city and have heard this story from others but I need help. I met my boyfriend now husband i guess on vacation in mexico about two years ago. hes cute, a ladies man. we met and fell in love big time. Well he came here for me. I married him on a fiancee visa.
I dunno this story is so long. We are both young (under 30 but not really young). Since hes been here its been hard sometimes. Hard to adjust. I used to have a very active social life and we had trouble making a social life together. hes had trouble getting a good job. well now immagration called us for our final interview (hell be good for for years) what should i do? we havent had sex in 3 months but were both really stressed out. I feel like he really loves me. Im mean sometimes too. We both had fun lives before. Im really mean when we fight so i blame stuff on myself, but hes mean too and i feel like he doesnt appreciate me. I dont feel like he could be using me because why would he want to be here miserable like he is if he didn't love me? He had an awesome life in mexico, and is very close to his family. I am of a different ethnic bacground than him, but i dont think that matters. everyone really likes him and thinks hes a great guy. ive calmed down so much since hes came should i try to work things out? ? is it worth it?? im so confused i had to sign up for this thing to ask strangers.... its such an embarrassing thing. i really had faith in love but i dont know now. im so much stronger a person here and hes so much stronger out there. how can we get a happy medium?? im not happy with the way things are going but im so busy with school and work im selfish and have no time for him now. so some of it is my fault too. Help!! more info if asked...
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