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Old May 3, 2006, 08:55 PM
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I need help again.....lonely.....thanks

Ok I posted about how me and my ex broke up after three years. Then I posted about how I was kinda hooking up with this girl who had a fianece, I know I shouldn't have. Now she moved away and well I'm all alone I need to make friends and take life slow but I need friends sooner then later because being alone sucks any ideas of ways to meet new people or to get the balls to start talking to random ppl without them thinking I'm a creep? Need help.

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Old May 3, 2006, 09:17 PM   #2  
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It sounds like you need time for yourself to re-discovery your inner self. Being alone should not equal lonliness, company is great but it should not be your source of fullfillment. Instead of going and making friends, i would suggest you take that time and do things that will be beneficial to your spirit and in this process you will make genuine friends. Do something you love, go and join a gym, or yoga classes, become coach, etc. whatever it is that gets you into your comfurt zone and helps you re-connect and discovery your inner self!

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Old May 3, 2006, 09:20 PM   #3  
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I'm told that a lot its not that I want someone seriours or anything I just want someone to hang out with doing things with, it is no fun by yourself and considently that reply is what every girl has told me but not every guy in fact I don't think a guy had said that at all. HMmmmmm
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Hi dude, you need some friends huh? I don't know how old you are but get a hobby or two and your bound to meet new people, instead of sitting around looking jump in with both feet and partisapate. Go to a gym, or volunteer for a good cause. the list is endless if you really think about it, so just because your alone is no reason to be lonely!
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Old May 4, 2006, 03:38 AM   #5  
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You do sound very lonely.
But searching for girlfriends is not your answer.
How old are you?
Im sure you're old enough to go out, get a hobby like the others said above, and take life as it comes, sometimes when u search for somthing or someone it never happens.
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im not searching for a girlfriend just friends and im not sure of any hobbies to take part in any other ideas
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How old are you?
If you have posted your age before, I am sorry, I forgot.
You really need to get out, meet people, make friends.
Ever thought of volunteering at a hospital, nursing home, library, or such?
SMILE, then Smile more. It shows you like yourself, and will make friends. When you talk with someone, talk about THEM, not you.
You can make more friends in a month listening to them, than in a year with them listening to you.
If you are not sure about any hobbies, then find some! You have to take some steps, if you want to turn your life around. No one can do it for you.
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