Is he trying to play mind games?

origins13 · #1 Jan 25, 2007, 01:47 AM

Have posted previously. My ex broke of 5 years broke up with me and now has a new gf. Was quite upset and had stopped contact for few months already. Didn't reply his emails or picked up his calls. Eventually he stopped all those. Recently he has been sending me many forward emails, which he didn't do so when we were dating. Those forwards are sent to me only and he usually adds few words or a line of commens. Perhaps I'm analyzing too much into this, but I couldn't help myself from thinking why is he doing this? Does he expect me to reply? In a way, I feel a little happy that he still thinks of me. Yet I know I have to stop myself from having any hopes and really move on.

So just venting it out here and hopefully I can continue the no contact

rol · Jan 25, 2007, 02:19 AM

Yes continue the no contact, those emails are a CRUMB of an attempt to get a reply out of you.

kay13 · Jan 25, 2007, 06:19 AM

I'm with rol. Stick to your guns, he's hoping to keep you on the back-burner and he's just testing the water.

wap · Jan 25, 2007, 06:40 AM

how strange to send these?? yeah, don't respond. He is looking for some kind of attention.

rol · Jan 25, 2007, 06:41 AM

yeah a miserable crumb!!!!!!!!!

delete right away and dont even think about them.

Geoffersonairplane · Jan 25, 2007, 06:46 AM

Seeking attention, don't give him any!!



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